Everyone in life probably has situations when they have to wait a long time for an answer from a person, and sometimes it happens that a question or request is ignored. What is ignore and how to deal with it, more details can be found later in the article.
Meaning of the word “ignore”
The older generation and young children do not always have time to monitor the emergence of new-fangled words and expressions. For example, not every person knows what ignore is, and hearing such a word does not understand what is being said.
“Ignore” is the abbreviation of the word “ignore” from “ignore” (intentionally ignore). According to statistics, the word "ignore" is the most used in social networks and forums, and in everyday life such a concept pops up less often. However, even outside the Internet, everyone can face such an unpleasant problem as ignoring someone.
About how to behave in this case, as well as about whether it is worth creating such a situation yourself, later in the article.
What to do if you are ignored
Unfortunately, it happens that a person for no reason stops answering calls or messages, and also avoids a personal meeting. After dozens of messages or calls that have remained unanswered, an understanding comes that it is ignore. A person does not answer not because he is busy or unable to answer, but because he has decided to ignore it.
The value of ignore can be interpreted in different ways, depending on the situation. Perhaps a person is simply tired of communicating, or it is unpleasant for some reason to contact, or maybe he has some kind of trouble and he is not interested in communicating with friends and relatives.
First of all, you need to understand the reason for this behavior. It often happens that a guy or girl begins to ignore each other after an unsuccessful date or intimacy. In this case, do not leave dozens of missed calls and write compassionate messages about how painful this loss is. Stop communication with pride and self-esteem in order to remain a worthy person in the memory of a partner.
There is also a situation where the communication of old friends gradually disappears, and then completely stops. In this case, the former friend can safely ignore any request. You should not pursue him or blame that there is no longer former friendship. Everything is done for the better, do not forget this.
And if the second half after a quarrel began to ignore, then in this case the situation should not be left to chance. This is where you just need to get a conversation or a personal meeting and discuss everything. Perhaps the insult is trifling, so it’s better not to start the problem and solve it right away.
If you are happy to agree to help your friends, colleagues or relatives, and in return you receive ignore at your request, then you should think about your attitude to life and other people and, perhaps, stop communicating with “friends” who use your kindness giving nothing in return.
Is it worth ignoring a loved one
As already mentioned, ignore is an effective way to stop communication or, at best, ruin it.
And some believe that with its help you can achieve a better disposition. Indeed, it often happens that, not receiving an answer to your request or due attention, a person begins to make more and more calls, send messages and try to achieve the desired result by any means.
However, it is worth thinking sensibly and understanding that ignoring means, first of all, unwillingness to contact or meet in life. Therefore, if you have a desire to continue a neutral or positive relationship with a person, then it is better not to try to attract his attention by deliberate disregard.
Finally
Ignore is an extremely unpleasant way to stop communicating with someone. If someone does not openly take into account all your requests, calls, messages or attempts to establish communication, then you should think about whether it is worth spending so much time, effort and emotions on him?
Anyone who wants to communicate and value friendship or relationships will never take such a measure as ignore.
If resentment and anger are raging in the heart, there is no desire to continue contact with the person, then first of all you need to calm down, and then in a calm tone to discuss the situation with the person who offended you. Perhaps not everything is so tragic, the problem can be solved by ordinary conversation and, as a result, maintain good relations.