Pavel Zygmantovich - one of the successful psychologists of our time. Positions itself as "the most categorical psychologist in the world." He gave himself this definition first to attract attention, and later they began to call it everywhere. Measure categories are not possible for a psychologist. Subsequently, Paul repeatedly used this absurd combination when communicating on social networks with haters. The definition has become a personal signature or a kind of “trademark” of a psychologist.
Childhood
Pavel has been actively engaged in psychology since 2001. He comes from Belarus, from a simple family. Parents, when he was still small, divorced. Then Paul realized how painful it was for the children, and decided that this would never happen in his own family. As a child, Paul dreamed of becoming a military man, read books about commanders. In adolescence, it became clear that a military career would not work out - it was decided to master a more profitable profession. Zygmantovich graduated from the Belarusian State Pedagogical University in 2003.
About work
Since 1998, he changed many professions - from a night watchman to an event organizer. Frequent change of work broadened the horizons, gave experience. Pavel has been making music for many years in the Belarusian rap group IQ48. According to him, he was not endowed with special musical talent, therefore, over time, he completed his musical career.
Coaching began in the first year of the university. The first training was held in the third year for students. Since 2006, begins work as a business coach at Sinton. He received his second education at the Moscow Research Institute of Social Psychology. He worked as a family relations trainer.
Now the psychologist Zygmantovich conducts trainings, gives personal consultations, speaks on television, publishes books, actively promotes the blog and pages on social networks.
About family
Paul is happily married a third time. In marriage, a son and a daughter are born. It is interesting that the first two times the psychologist Zygmantovich was married to the same girl Olga, who today is his wife. This fact makes the family psychologist closer to the problems of his clients. He knows firsthand why a family can collapse and how to preserve it. By his own example, he shows the practice of healthy relationships in the family.
About peppy psychology
Pavel Zygmantovich developed a technique where the strengths of a person develop. The entire course is built on logical conclusions. The psychologist opposes the new-fangled tendency of esotericists to blame parents or the external social environment for all personality problems. It is based only on the personal qualities of a person. You need to develop the positive aspects of the character within yourself, most problems are solved much easier than it seems. The psychologist publishes specific rules of conduct and recommendations for the implementation of healthy habits in life. Books on the development of one's own strengths and willpower of Zygmantovich can be downloaded for free from his personal site.
About love
One of the central topics of the psychologist Pavel Zygmantovich’s blog is love. Both in marriage and outside of it. The author is categorically opposed to lovers and lovers. Up to the point that he does not consult with them. He believes that the family is the most valuable that a person has.
In love, according to the psychologist Zygmantovich, there is no place for understatement. At the beginning of the relationship, it is better to find out the elementary needs of the partner. Find out how he sees the relationship, which is unacceptable to him. It’s not worth adjusting if there are beliefs with which you cannot reconcile yourself with time - do not try to remake the other half. In the book “Secrets of Relationships, or How to Love Happily Happily,” Zygmantovich explains in a simple and understandable language what the principles of mutual love are based on. Some find the author’s language too pragmatic for such a sensual sphere of relations, but he is also the most categorical psychologist. Love, according to Paul, is not the only thing family relations are based on.
About women
Paul insists that in any, even the most unfortunate situation in family life, you can come to a compromise. He does not deserve only a relationship with episodes of physical abuse. In each article on relationships, the psychologist Zygmantovich calls on women to prudence, to abandon template ideas and stereotypes of thinking. Calls to abandon the "search for destiny" and begin to live today. Select what is good in life and develop it in yourself. Relations in a pair should be mutual, so a woman should not pull the blanket over herself and unnecessarily bother around her husband. In a quarrel, both partners need to apologize.
The task of harmonious relations is to learn mutual assistance. If a woman works, she is not obliged to pull household chores on herself. The husband should help her in household chores, as she works with him on an equal footing and participates in the replenishment of the family budget. In a quarrel, it is useful to be silent more so as not to regret what was said later. In the blog of psychologist Pavel Zygmantovich, everyone will find interesting information for themselves. The author writes about how to properly respond to the attention of men, how to build relationships with her husband, the importance of the outer shell and other women's topics. There is information about working issues and cash. The psychologist gives recommendations for improving the quality of life, gives examples of specific actions that need to be done to do this. Therefore, just listening to his lectures is not enough, you will need to work on yourself and follow the rules of behavior. Only in this way the result of working with Zygmantovich’s materials will become tangible and bear fruit.
About men
A popular trend in psychological analysis of personality has affected almost everyone who has reached the thirty-year mark. Most of those interested in this topic are women, as they tend to crave the emotional side of life and family. For interested men Zygmantovich has enough useful information. The training book “Kill the infantile in yourself” even for mature and responsible men provides new information and steps for personal growth. In a man, the author is trying to revive willpower. Zygmantovich considers in his articles news from the world of psychology. Often disputes research, its conclusions are not without logic.
In the book “From Boy to Sage,” Zygmantovich draws the attention of readers to the typology of male personalities, which prospects open with age for men with characteristic behaviors. Zygmantovich explains the behavior of men, why it is impossible to be both a good father and a good husband, as well as a breadwinner, a good son, and so on. The author gives recommendations to a woman how to behave with a man at the time of a role conflict. Women, having become acquainted with Zygmantovich’s research, can get rid of some claims to partners and take a fresh look at family troubles.
The author teaches women to understand men, to look for an approach to them. The main message is not to focus on one’s own problems, but to recognize positive qualities in a man and praise him for their manifestations. If the partner knows that what he does is important for his girlfriend, he will try to become even better.
Reviews
Readers find that the psychologist is really firm in his beliefs and understands the topics that he raises. Pavel’s outlook on life is masculine, which often makes women uncomfortable when they read his articles. The logical conclusions of the author are not always combined with a female emotional position in relation to feelings. Readers find that Zygmantovich’s books convey the author’s concept in a simple and accessible language, they helped some to find a solution to life’s difficulties. The psychologist gives confidence, shares the recipe for building a favorable relationship in a pair. In Russia, where it is not customary to go to psychologists, Zygmantovich’s books are able to substantiate the typology of personality behavior. Moreover, the author does not insist on the categorical nature of his judgments, but simply conveys them to the reader. The language in which articles and publications are written is concise and succinct. Paul masculinely expresses thoughts. His conclusions make you think about your own behavior and begin to change for the better. Often we do not notice the little things that make up the attitude of others. Zygmantovich opens his eyes to behavioral nuances and provides an incentive for personal growth.
Finally
The judgments of Pavel Zygmantovich may be liked, or vice versa, cause negative emotions. But after reading his publications, it becomes clear that the author definitely knows what he is writing about. In March 2017, Pavel Zygmantovich’s online training “To himself a psychologist” was held, the tracker of which can still be found on the network. The author raises several topics in it, how a person can deal with his own problems. Pavel gives working psychological tools that can get rid of destructive habits, cope with negative emotions. The psychologist gives instructions: how to raise self-esteem and fight for your own. Zygmantovich as a TV presenter is a co-author of the program “Psychology Through”. The author's blog has more than forty-five thousand visitors every month. Paul’s books can be downloaded for free, in audio format, on his author’s website.
In Zygmantovich’s publications, it’s important for the reader not only to reveal the meaning, but to begin to anticipate the recommendations of the psychologist. The systematic implementation of Zygmantovich’s instructions, according to user reviews, brings an obvious improvement both in personal life and in general. The implementation of the recommendations of a psychologist requires moral stability and focus on results.