Look at yourself from the outside and understand that you are a gray mass, and other people are bright spots? So it's time to change something in life. And the change should begin precisely with oneself - the person who first of all needs to be loved and respected. Then he will consider himself a unique and vibrant personality. And such confidence will quickly pass on to others.
How to stand out from the crowd?
Self-awareness is what the so-called gray mass lacks. Each person is unique, but not every person understands this simple truth. If you believe that all people come to this world for some purpose, then life becomes brighter and more positive. Even if you have a mess in your life and you feel depressed, you need to remember that everything will change for the better. The faceless gray mass is not something with which a happy and positive person is positioning himself. Pessimistic views on this life will never lead to anything good. Therefore, the first thing to do is to mobilize all forces and sincerely believe that in the near future life will improve.
Raising self-esteem
After you have raised your spirits, you need to start to separate from the gray mass morally. How to do it? You need to raise your self-esteem. Many people do not love themselves and do not know how to love themselves. Children from infancy are driven into the head by the idea that selfishness is bad, and you need to sacrifice your interests all the time for the benefit of someone. Therefore, growing up, people cease to value and love themselves. Raise your self-esteem is necessary gradually. At the first stage, you should get rid of childhood injuries. This can be done independently, but if it does not work out, then you should contact a psychologist.
After all psychological barriers have been removed, you can begin to re-educate yourself. Spend more time on your needs and don’t be afraid that you will not succeed at first. Do not lose your enthusiasm and remember that moral rebirth will take time.
Appearance
Do you want to stand out from the gray mass? Then you need to change. Go to the hairdresser, change the color of your hair and do a manicure. Pick the right look for yourself. If the soul requires self-expression, you can even get a symbolic tattoo or make a piercing. Do not be afraid to be yourself. There is only one life. And you will regret in your old age that you missed many opportunities in your youth.
clothing
What changes a person more than a new hairstyle? Right, new clothes. To stand out from the gray mass, you need to reconsider your style. This does not mean that you need to dress in bright things that go against fashion and look too extravagant. Not at all. You need to dress with taste and choose things in accordance with your complexion, taking into account the shortcomings of your figure and adjusting them. If you do not have enough taste or knowledge, you can consult with friends whose style appeals to you, or contact an image maker. In any case, do not think that clothes will not help you become better. They see off, of course, in the mind, but they are met precisely in clothes.
Find your path
You do not want to be a gray mass? A crowd of people of the same type is the scourge of modern society. People do not try to become better, their main desire is to be no worse than others. Many individuals are afraid to follow their true calling only because they fear condemnation from others. But a person who does not go his own way can never be happy. To be realized in this life, you need to follow your calling and not go off the chosen path. It should be remembered that it is never too late to start all over again. If a person does not find his calling in life, she will never be able to stand out from the crowd. And how to find your destination? Remember those activities that give you pleasure. Even if your hobby will not bring you income, it will still be useful for you. Every person needs an outlet. Being engaged in a favorite thing, a person acquires individuality. With proper effort, any individual will soon be able to figure out how to make money on what brings him pleasure. Do not be afraid to take risks, one life - and you will not have a second attempt to live it.
Don't be afraid of condemnation
Do you see happy faces in the crowd? Who are these people? These are people who are not afraid to follow the chosen path. They like life, they enjoy every day they live. Why are some people happy and others not? The thing is that some people are not afraid of the condemnation of others, and the opinion of the crowd is very important to others. You will never be able to stand out from the gray mass if you keep doing what others expect from you.
To become a unique person, external transformation is not enough. Much more important is how you feel. Moral satisfaction from the desired actions noticeably liberates the soul and helps a person to go beyond the narrow boundaries of what is considered the norm in society. If you do something that scares you from time to time, you can understand that life is interesting and exciting, and most importantly, you will develop the habit of taking your opinion into account in the first place, and only then thinking about what others will think about you.
Are you scared to take the first step? Remember that many brilliant people were considered strange. It is difficult for people to recognize something new and to see in it ingenious or interesting. But if you constantly stand still and do not move on, then you will not come anywhere to the goal. If you want to achieve something in this life, you must listen to your heart and not be afraid that you will be celebrated among your friends as an eccentric. Better to be an eccentric than mediocrity.