Mikhail Igorevich Khasminsky is a well-known Russian crisis psychologist, the initiator of the organization of a special center in Moscow at the Church of the Resurrection of Christ (the area of the Baumanskaya, Semenovskaya metro stations) and its head.
Biography
Mikhail Igorevich born in 1969. Married, has a son.
As for the profession, in the past - a police major. Educated as a psychologist at the Academy of the Ministry of Internal Affairs of Russia. She has experience working with children with oncology.
Orthodox psychologist, initiator of the development of such a direction in modern psychology as psycho-oncology.
About the center of crisis psychology
This is one of the earliest institutions of this type. Created over 10 years ago. The crisis center employs the best Orthodox psychologists who help almost everyone who addresses a question (problems in relationships in families, fears and obsessions, violence, natural disasters, stress, and so on). Here, both adults and children, both believers (of different religious groups) and atheists are helped.
The attitude on the part of the staff is equal to everyone, regardless of what kind of fee the person who applied was able to allocate and whether to allocate at all.
According to crisis psychologist Mikhail Khasminsky, the best reward for work is sincere gratitude and the shining eyes of the healed.
Activities
This outstanding person, in addition to his main activities aimed at serving God through direct assistance to people, is also the author of many books, publications, interviews.
Many of his articles are translated and published in English, Ukrainian, German, Romanian, Chinese and Serbian.
Holds field seminars with practical work, teaches, and promotes spiritual knowledge through the Internet.
Professional interests
The activity of the psychologist Mikhail Igorevich Khasminsky is aimed at providing:
- Psychological assistance to adults who are experiencing separation or divorce from a loved one.
- Rehabilitation assistance to those who are experiencing stress from losing a loved one (death).
- Support for patients suffering from a somatic disease of a complex degree.
- Helps to prevent suicide through a specific psychological work.
- Affected in the territory of military operations, natural disasters, terrorist acts.
- Help for adults and children who have experienced extreme traumatic situations.
And:
- implementation of work through skype, promotion of information about spiritual values through an online resource;
- organization of volunteer activities;
- implementation of work in the segment of the section of social psychology - psychology of the crowd.
Books and publications
Each publication of the crisis psychologist Mikhail Khasminsky is the stages of his becoming as a person, an outstanding personality, and a psychologist. And although some of them were written a long time ago, they are still relevant today, because they reflect the pressing issues of modern society.
About the books of Mikhail Khasminsky on subjects:
- Family, relationships, parting, love - in-depth information about creating a strong family, about a man and woman, about responsibility (as the foundation of relationships, including family relationships), about pregnancy, about jealousy and love dependence, about egoism and so on.
- Losing loved ones - recommendations on how to express condolences, how to get rid of guilty feelings (including before a departed person), getting rid of the influence of the past on the present, answers to many questions of interest.
- The crises in life are about heartache, about feelings and where they lead, about methods of overcoming obsessive thoughts, about fears.
- Books for people who have experienced violence in life - about how forgiveness frees up and improves well-being, about the destruction of illusions, about domestic violence (is it normal if a man hits a woman) and others.
- About patriotic feelings, the national question, about democracy and so on.
- About spirituality and the meaning of life - answers to questions about the meaning of life (in 3 parts), about education and the meaning of life, about freedom, about consciousness, about personal growth without spirituality, about the church, about young "elders" and others.
- About fears - methods of overcoming obsessive thoughts and fears (through psychology and spirituality), about fears per se, about obsessive thoughts (reason).
- About a suicidal mood - about the impossibility of killing your higher self, about suicide as a way to recognize yourself, about the inability to connect with a dead person through the killing of your body.
- About diseases - an ailment is a way and a possibility of spiritual development, about overcoming the vacuum of patients with psychosomatics, about forgiveness and its effect on the state of health.
- Comments and interviews are about the soul, about freedom, about the churching of man, about Orthodox priests and the church, about the illusions of actions, etc.
Psychologist Mikhail Khasminsky about freedom
In the usual sense of the word, freedom means the absence of any limiting factors that may affect decision-making, the commission of an action, and so on.
But a person lives in a social environment that periodically changes over the course of his life. And he would like to feel absolutely free from other people, their influences, but until the end this can not be, since every human being is part of society.
According to the psychologist Khasminsky, real freedom is freedom from attachments to money, power, opinions of others. That is, from the so-called Bible passions.
True freedom comes to a person when he learns the truth that makes him free. And there can be only one dependence in life - from a loving Heavenly Father.
About infantility
Also, according to Mikhail Khasminsky, a problem has come to a head in modern society regarding the infantility of adults. Especially men.
There are several reasons for this. The first and foremost are single-parent families, where often sons are raised by their mother (and grandmothers). This is precisely what gives rise to the problem of the infantility of the growing boy. After all, responsibility must be learned from early childhood. Then each man will be mature and adult.
According to the psychologist, a simple observation method helps to distinguish a truly adult from an infantile one: if a person comes to a rehabilitation center (or church) as if for help, but does nothing, he just pours out emotional problems and looks for someone If you put all responsibility for yourself and your life, then this is a clear sign of immaturity.
As a rule, consultations give certain practical tasks that need to be completed. And when a person does something (even if it doesn’t really work out), wants to really change, then you can help him, and this already speaks of some maturity.