Several years ago, information appeared on the Web that love is a drug. Even studies were conducted, as a result of which it turned out that in lovers, as in addicts, the same receptors that are responsible for pleasure are activated.
But scientists reassured us. Although love has common symptoms with drug addiction, it is not.
Euphoria of feelings
It’s in our nature to fall in love. It helps build relationships and create families. But there are people who fall in love for the very state of falling in love. They often change partners, justifying themselves by looking for their soul mate.
An amorous person is an individual who falls in love a lot and often. This is a hunter for love euphoria, wild emotions and passion.
Features
A person who feels the need for strong love feelings, thrills and emotions. He needs a sense of flight, joy, lightness in the body and butterflies in his stomach. This is an amorous individual.
A person who ascribes to his partner nonexistent traits of character, idealizing his image. He draws in his head an ideal picture of a partner, what he should be like. This amorous person forbidding to be another by himself, because if he shows himself real, the relationship will end.
A man who lives in his dreams and fantasies. The world of illusions does not allow him to see reality. A loving person perceives people as ideal images, and is very disappointed in learning the truth. True, this does not prevent her from starting the following relationship.
A person who depends on a state of falling in love, who may feel bad if there is no object for breathing nearby, is an amorous individual who needs to constantly search for the ideal partner.
What other features are characteristic of him? A caring and amorous person can conquer you with his behavior. He is interested in your business, he meets you in the evening after work, prepares dinner, helps with cleaning, walks with you in the park, arranges pleasant surprises and unusual dates, gives gifts, pays a lot of attention, writes nice SMS, calls several times a day just like that . Isn't that love?
What's so bad
Each person has his ideal image of a loved one. But some are so keen on searches that they forget to live a real life.
The process is important to these amorous persons; they are not interested in the partner’s feelings and thoughts, only the state that they experience when they are with him. The longer it lasts, the longer the relationship. As soon as the veil of illusions falls from the eyes, the time comes for parting and searching for a new object for love. But love is not built in this way, it is based on mutual trust and acceptance of each other with all positive and negative traits.
Psychologists say that such behavior is characteristic of people who do not want to take responsibility and are afraid to start a serious relationship.
What to do?
- If you found your partner in this article, then discuss this issue with him. Find out his opinion and what he thinks about the relationship. If your conclusions and views do not coincide, then make the appropriate decision.
- If you recognize yourself in this article, then admit and give yourself internal consent to the changes. Analyze why this happens, find the root of the problem and fix it. Live a real life with a real living person.
It's good to be forever in love at 17 years old. It gives a sense of flying and inspiration for creativity and dreams of a bright future. But in 30 years it will bring nothing but disappointment and loneliness. Grow up, take responsibility for yourself, your life and build your bright future!