Very often we hear from friends sayings: I am the most unhappy, why I am not lucky and so on. Many are so merged with the image of people offended by life that it becomes almost impossible to convince them. Very often, such thoughts cause real resentment or even anger at others. It begins to seem to man that everything is against him. In the end, he risks losing friends and being alone.
It is impossible to give an unambiguous answer to the question of why this or that person is unlucky in his personal life, at work or in relationships with friends. However, you can only get out of this situation on your own.
First you need to clearly articulate all your negative thoughts. It is advisable to write them on a piece of paper and read them carefully. Then reformulate them so that they become positive.
It is very important to learn to tune in to the best. It is not for nothing that our grandmothers said that everything that is being done is for the best. This simple saying perfectly helps to survive even very difficult situations, which, unfortunately, often happen in life.
Answer for yourself only three questions:
- What does not suit you in life?
- How do you want it to be?
- What prevents to achieve the desired?
Having received specific answers to your questions, you can remove from life all that is superfluous, that which does not allow you to be truly happy. Try to live as if luck has already come to you. And it will not make you wait long.
Stop asking the question: why am I unlucky? Everyone in life has moments when nothing happens and hands fall. Most often, troubles only happen in one area of life. It can be work, personal or family life. Never swear with loved ones just because it does not go well at work. So you will not solve the problem, but only make it worse.
Global bad luck is very rare. Most often, the reason that “I am not lucky” is unrealistic plans or unattainable goals. This leads to a decline in vitality, low self-esteem and unwillingness to do anything. If the situation cannot be changed, then the only right solution is to change the attitude towards it. Change is always for the better, even if it happened because of unpleasant events. Belief in this is the key to success.
After analyzing the situation or the question “why am I not lucky”, you can find the answers. But this is not enough. One must have a desire to correct the situation and, of course, to know how to do it.
Try to lower your requirements a little. Do not come up with goals that will be impossible to achieve. Most often, only bad memories remain in memory. Try to change it. Pay attention to all the pleasant things that happen in life. And do it every day.
As a result, you will get used to the idea that wonderful things constantly happen in life, you are even more lucky than some of your friends.
The most important thing is to believe in yourself, in your dream, and you will see how the world around you will change for the better, and the wheel of fortune will begin to rotate in the direction you need. No longer wondering why I’m not lucky, you will finally begin a full life.
Do not forget that no matter how rosy the world around you, troubles do happen. It is very important not to fall into despair or depression. A black stripe is always followed by a white one and, most likely, today's troubles promise only good things in the future. Tune in to positive. Come up with an activity that distracts from unpleasant thoughts. Go for a walk, to the cinema, to the club. Call old friends you may not have seen for a long time. Communication with nice people, friendly atmosphere will make you remember all the good things that were in your life. Thus, you will get a charge of positive emotions that will help you find the right solution or a way out of the current situation.