We are used to the fact that the obstinate is such a person who has a certain negative quality. But actually it is not so bad. The owner of this nature can always stand up for himself and does not allow anyone to control himself. After all, how often can we not simply refuse a person. And others quickly notice this and begin to use it for their own purposes. And then they transfer to us the whole load of problems, and we silently drag them along with us.
The obstinate is a man or not?
The owner of such a quality never depends on anyone and owes nothing to anyone. He has his own opinion about everything, and he always defends it. The obstinate is such a person who can easily refuse someone. His colleagues would not call him and ask for help with something at work. Yes, he himself will not stay there until late to help out his employee. “But what about kindness and mutual assistance?” - you ask. There must be a limit to everything. Do not run headlong when you just heard a phone call. And with a stranger you do not need to start a friendly conversation. We must learn to say no. If you have done something, you should not expect that you will receive something in return. Give back only when you really want it. After all, a person who has such qualities is much easier to live. Do not think about how to tame the obstinate colleague. Better take an example from him and be a little tougher.
The obstinate girl: taming
There are many ways to do this. One of them is physical. Practice proves that it is completely ineffective. Moral and intellectual are also unlikely to be effective. If you take advantage of the financial, then the woman is likely to submit to you, but will assume that you are very greedy. But think about the opposite. After all, all of the above actions are just ordinary manipulation that no one likes. Since childhood, mother has been teaching every woman how to live in a family and treat her husband. Men do not receive such training. As a result, we see that many young families are controlled by their mother.
We are reprehensible about my mother’s son, but it’s completely normal for my mother’s daughter. This humiliates men, because they want them to be masters in the house, and their opinion was the main one. And such ladies do not even seek to save the family. After all, the status of "married" in their pocket, and the rest is not so important. So they get divorced quite easily, and try to do it so that everyone knows about it. And then they begin to talk about the fact that she never managed to create a normal family due to the fact that her husband turned out to be a goat and a villain. So she will have to raise her children alone. And for those men who have always been under the strict control of their mothers, it is also quite difficult. After all, they are used to the fact that she is the owner of the house, and only she knows how everything should be. Here he creates a family and clearly follows all the instructions of his wife. He is inferior to her in everything, demonstrating his behavior to his own children. And those, in turn, adopt this model of the family and carry it into their adult lives. It turns out that the obstinate is, first of all, an independent and self-confident person. Is it worth it to tame, it's up to you. One thing is certain: women's independence can seriously affect family life.