How often in friends' companies, psychologist's offices and on Internet forums there is not even a question, but a cry of the soul: “Why should I live?”
But here is the interesting thing. Absolutely different people name only a few reasons for their alleged departure. They are easy to classify.
The question of why to live is most often asked by people:
- Suffering from total failure in the eyes of the opposite sex, failures in romantic affairs.
- Men who have difficulty in intimate life.
- Unhappy lovers who parted with or lost their partner.
- People who have suffered a bereavement, survived the death of someone from family or friends.
- Employees or workers in financial difficulties, problems at work.
- Persons affected by outing. This is the name of the public illegal disclosure of information about a citizen's sexual identity or sexual orientation.
- Seriously ill.
- Patients are depressed.
“Why live,” these people ask, “if there is nothing left in existence but bitterness?” If nobody needs you? Why live if nothing but difficulties is foreseen in the future? ”
I also think that living, seeing only the negative side of being, is not worth it. The reality is so different, it does not even look like a zebra, as the joke says. She looks like a rainbow. Multicolor, never repeating. Therefore, one cannot think only about the black side of life.
You need to pull yourself together, shake yourself, try to see other colors, feel other emotions.
Threw your favorite? Well, this is an occasion to change yourself and find a new, more worthy and loving gentleman.
Did your parents die? And who said that people are eternal? Or maybe they finally got rid of constant pain and suffering?
Unpleasant information was revealed about you? But personally, you already knew this about yourself. And they didn’t get worse from this.
Why live in such a situation? And at least to spite the enemies. Let them see how strong you are. Do not be afraid of gossip and condemnation, do not be afraid of public opinion, get out of the water dry.
Why live on? Just to rejoice. To love, to seek. Meet the dawn, get wet in the rain, cry with happiness. Yes, just smile, because the world is so beautiful! Feeling and discovering a divine spark in yourself, showing love for all people, learning how to make friends with every person you meet is what life is worth living for.
Yes. This is hard. You cannot change your fate, turn it upside down in one day. You need to work on yourself for a long time and hard, change your character, learn to experience joy.
And you can live for someone.
How often do people asking why live forget about their parents? About your children? How often do they think about what kind of pain they bring to loved ones? But a person who thinks only of himself is the most ordinary egoist.
Why live in the world? To make your child’s fate happy. To ease the old age of parents. To enjoy all the colors of life. Fall in love, raise children. To get closer to God.
It is not simple. But if you start working on yourself, begin to strive for excellence, then you can achieve anything. And there will be no time to ask a question about why to live on.
You need to live in order to live.