Most of the problems of mankind arise due to the fact that the resources of our world are limited, but the desires are unlimited. At a certain stage, we begin to understand that goals begin to conflict with each other. And a dozen lives will not be enough to realize all the goals. Of course, it is possible to increase the effectiveness of activities at times, but there will always be a shortage of something, but we get used to abundance much more easily. And then you have to make unpleasant decisions - for example, look for the most important thing in life and cut off everything else.
As one Russian poet wrote, one must be afraid of the one who knows “how to” and is trying to force everyone to impose their understanding of the meaning of life. For example, build communism or become a billionaire. These goals are different in the degree of balance of self-denial and selfishness. But what they have in common is that they are unnatural, abnormal for a person.
The main goal in life cannot appear on a team; you cannot invent it in the process of preparing for the next interview in "advanced" companies. The most important goal is called life mission. How to formulate it so that she calls for action and motivates to achieve?
First, the most important thing in life is connected with the imperfections of the world that you see around. It is impossible to become happy simply by concentrating on your well-being. Sooner or later, the world will amend its egoistic program. Therefore, the goal of “a three-story palace on the shores of the Adriatic” cannot be a life mission.
Secondly, the most important thing in life should not be connected with the idea of possession. Owning a million dollars is good when you can earn a couple more millions a year. You've probably heard that winning astronomical amounts in the lottery often end up being poorer than they were before the lottery. Therefore, one must want to be someone and be able to something. Then you can not be afraid of the vicissitudes of fate. Even if you lose resources, the ability to understand the situation and change it will allow you to return everything with interest.
Thirdly, the most important thing in life should be connected with the idea of helping people around. The ideal goal is based on the fact that you understand your strengths and know exactly what you can give the world. And unprincipled, it will be the design of an anti-gravity machine, a good book about relations between people or an elegant dress that emphasizes the beauty of the hostess. Do what you do best. Do not focus on weaknesses, concentrate on strengths - otherwise you will do everything mediocre.
Fourth, the ideal purpose of life should be connected with the creation of a new contribution to the heritage. It gives a meaning to life. With the right goal, you will begin to understand that your appearance is not accidental and you have a destiny that is very significant both for you and for those around you. This allows you to feel good, even when life clearly refuses to pamper you.
For example, at a certain stage, I realized that my mission in life is to help people achieve their goals and see as many opportunities as possible in each situation. That is why pedagogy is suitable for me, I can help people see the future precisely when it is most important for them - in childhood. So it turns out that my profession is quite suitable for me. Of course, the payment for this work is still much to be desired, but pedagogy gives inspiration.
It is clear that the most important thing in life should be connected with your values. To identify them, apply the technique proposed by Gleb Arkhangelsk - every day write down the main event of the day - and find out what value stands behind it. So you understand what is important to you - and you can understand life goals. Dreams will turn into real achievements.