Time is a great architect; it can redraw people and events. What was shameful yesterday was already the norm today, if not ideal. The image of the refined bitch that goes through the heads and hearts is actively cultivated today by gloss and society. Although in reality a cynical woman is nonsense, an anomaly, a paradox.
Lyrical digressionThe subtle female nature by its nature was created not for cynicism, but for care, love and tenderness. As many as feminists can lavish about gender equality, but because women were allowed to drive piles, they did not feel better. You can’t argue against nature and the laws of the universe, man and woman initially have a nature set for different tasks, but someone wanted to try on someone else’s burden. As you know, in the neighboring yard, the water is wetter and the sun is brighter. Or maybe not really wanted, but somehow they didn’t refuse on time, and away we go.
It's one thing when a cynical girl is not out of her soul, but in fashion. As a dress uncomfortable, but interesting cut. She tried on, showed off and threw herself on the mezzanine to a very old age, in order to remember and tell her grandchildren what had happened. Much worse when cynical is from the gut. Because it’s pain, it’s sadness, it’s broken something, so much that it knocked you down. As the ancient Chinese said: "The stronger the armor, the more tender is what is under them." She substituted, believed, sprouted ... It doesn’t matter what, it doesn’t matter to anyone, but now the woman knows for sure that it’s impossible anymore - it’s painful and difficult, and now she’s become cynical. This is a defensive reaction, nothing more.
The opinion of psychologists
With cynics, people do not come into this world. Life makes us such, or we ourselves become similar under its wheels. The most cynical is usually a very soulful and finely organized personality, although often she doesn’t even admit it to herself. It would seem a paradox, right? However, if you understand the essence, then everything becomes logical and very clear. There are such people who sharply react to injustice, deceit, betrayal - something that one will let pass by and the other through itself.
A cynical woman is undoubtedly a strong character, giving strength to see, but resist. Often such people evoke ambiguous emotions in their surroundings, envy them, shun them, do not understand or condemn them, but by and large they are interesting and extraordinary personalities, again due to their internal qualities. Pragmatism, implicated in rigidity, is true - in the absence of a beautiful cover for lies, indifference - in common sense. If the mind is lively and sharp, such a person beckons and repels at the same time, remember the same Dr. House. Balance on the verge of sensitivity and undisguised truths. This is felt by many, but to speak something so indecent. You can think, slowly, secretly from yourself, but aloud ... A mask worn once can grow forever. And I want to look for her. Curiosity what to do. I want to turn a grinning wolf into a dog lying by the fireplace, so that here and with you everything would be different, for real, without games, without disguises, without armor. The great Makarenko in half with Maslow lives in the souls of the majority. And you can put this mask on yourself and look at the world from that side ...