Sexists and feminists converge in endless battles. Some argue that the psychology of women is very different from the psychology of men, while others believe that a separate scientific discipline does not exist at all. Who is right? Probably both sides. But only partially.
Amazons start and ... win
The psychology of women in a relationship is really different from men's. Only those representatives of the fair sex who build their interactions with the opposite sex according to the male model are successful in their personal lives. That is, they calmly relate to this area of ​​life, not allowing themselves to be manipulated. Men are not interested in sleepy whores, but in bright, smart and independent ladies. They can marry less interesting women, but if a man can afford a housekeeper, then he will not marry a boring woman. That is, an average intellectual wife is a symptom of a man’s financial insolvency.
Imposed addiction
Women's psychology regarding money is linked to cultural stereotypes. According to public guidelines, a situation is considered normal when a man supports a woman, and she spends her money on little things that simply increase her mood. Indeed, even a well-earned woman feels uncomfortable if at least temporarily becomes the main earner in the family. Of course, “salary” discrimination of the fair sex adds fuel to the fire. This is the fact that a woman is paid much less. From the calculation that it is as if a man is “obliged” to keep her.
Downhill path
Is the psychology of a married woman different from the psychology of a single? Yes, strong enough. And, unfortunately, for the worse. In most cases, after marriage, degradation occurs, both emotional and physical. This is a consequence of too much importance attached to marriage in our culture. It turns out that the status of a married woman rises sharply (by the way, the status of a man decreases at the same time).
Do not hurry
A married woman is inclined to rest on her laurels. But in vain. Because in the event of a divorce, she will have to provide for her children, and it’s quite difficult to get married again with the children of the former “parasite”. So our culture of reverence for marriage turns into female tragedies. Perhaps it is easier to initially treat marriage simply as part of life, and not the most important one? Having children is not because “it happened”, but because I want to share the joy of a creative, active life. And only when you yourself can provide prosperity for your offspring, and not rely on the "princes"?
We are different
The psychology of women is different from the psychology of men, not only because of cultural influences. We have a different hormonal background, the brain works a little differently (no worse, but just differently) and there is a desire for stability in relationships. But it’s better to play a man’s game, creating a man’s situation of hunting you all his life. If a man becomes uninteresting, he leaves. To the other, in yourself. Or in alcoholism. Therefore, you should not encourage female manifestations of your nature - it is better for a modern woman who is not protected by traditional morality to live her head and not her heart.