Every woman wants a worthy man to appear in her life. But who is this and, in general, is there in nature? Is there such a code or set of rules by which it can be understood that one man is “what is needed,” but this one is not? Psychologist's advice on how to find a worthy man, next.
Love yourself
The first and most important rule that a worthy man can find you - love yourself. As you relate to yourself, others will relate to you. This is the law of reflection. Fall in love with yourself: big eyes, puffy lips, freckles on the nose and upturned nose. Take your body with all the flaws. Love a changeable character, admire how well you do with cooking, business acumen. Dress yourself up, indulge, buy something beautiful in the house that will inspire you. Do not rush to any man on the principle of "I will re-educate him", get positive emotions and the joy of communicating with yourself. You are the closest person to yourself. A worthy man will come as soon as you are filled with joy and happiness.
Change settings
It is unlikely that you will be able to meet a worthy man if you consider yourself a ugly woman, not worthy of his attention, or think that all men are traitors, traitors and so on. Track your inner attitudes towards men and change them. Make a list of the qualities that you like most and look for them in the men who surround you.
Forgive those who hurt you
A man worthy of love will not be able to come into your life if you are still in the past and worried about what the former a few years ago cheated on you and your best friend. I sincerely forgive those who offended you. Consider this a payment for future happiness. They were not bad, they just did not suit you and left in order to make way for the best man in the world.
Forgive your father, because many of the problems of adulthood originate in childhood. Maybe your dad once rude or did not say that you are the most beautiful? According to statistics, dad’s daughters are rarely unhappy in love, because getting a man’s attention and being his main value for them is normal from an early age. Allow yourself not only to love, but also to be loved, accept the fact that you deserve love. This will help attract a decent man as quickly as possible.
Decide what you need
Who is a worthy man for you personally? There is a curious parable about the husbands shop. This store had 6 floors and on each of them the number of positive qualities of the chosen one increased. But it was impossible to return to the floor below the conditions. On one of them were working men, on the other - handsome, on the third - loving children, moreover, on the floor above, security was also added to this list. And on the penultimate floor - a love of household. But most women wanted to go up to the top floor. The sixth floor was invented in order to explain to women that the flow of their demands is endless and they are obliged to leave the store without a man.
Which man is worthy? Maybe he is a hardworking and reliable or light romantic. Does he love extreme sports or loves spending time together? Think about it and accept responsibility for your choice. And the responsibility is that you cannot get everything at once. If you want a working man, be prepared for the fact that you have almost no time left to be together, because he needs to provide for his family.
A romantic man with a gentle nature, as a rule, does not know how to earn a lot of money, but he knows how to surprise. Create in your head a clear image of your ideal man, imagine living together in colors - this helps to achieve the goal. The rules of a worthy man (that he should be both a romantic and a getter, that he should blow off dust particles and be strict) are most often written by women, think about it.
Move around
An ideal partner will not come to your apartment at your request. Get out of the house. If you want a sports man, go to the gym. Go to a concert or theater, register on a dating site, look for many options for a meeting, show your imagination. Maybe you will meet him when you go to the bakery? And such cases, believe me, have happened. The main thing - do not take your every way out of the house as a sign of fate. Let the universe do the work for you. You just need to believe that your life partner is bound to appear soon.
Every woman is worthy of love. Love, because love is not a person. Love is a state of mind, and then a worthy man will come into your life.