The conflict is always unpleasant, and even after the dispute is resolved, there remains an unpleasant aftertaste on the soul, which then can be washed off only with great difficulty, so I would like to avoid such collisions. However, alas, in a family conflict situations cannot be dispensed with, but sometimes in order to prevent a quarrel, you need to know the main causes of conflicts and not step on the same rake.
Reasons that after time seem funny
Conflicts in pairs were and will be, and the clash of interests, due to which a dispute arises, is to blame. For example, one partner wants the plaid in the bedroom to be checkered, because this is cosiness, classic, beauty, and the other believes that the best option would be monophonic, since it fits almost everything. It is important to remember that a person is able to get used to a lot, can any plaid cause strife?
“They didn’t agree on the characters” is the main excuse for couples in which the clash of interests, over which a dispute arises, has passed to the very last stage - hatred and hostility. Yes, this is actually possible. Different people, different views, different lives, but this is not a reason for parting or arguing!
Another urgent problem is unwillingness to help around the house. Very often, men simply forget that a woman needs to redo as many tasks in a day as he does not do in a week, so on weekends they peacefully lie on the couch, and women bustle around the housework. Such a problem may seem simply ridiculous if you look at it from the other side: is it really so difficult to vacuum and wash the dishes, saving yourself and your soul mate from unnecessary abuse?
Serious problems
- Drunkenness. This is what is really difficult to put up with and what is almost impossible to get used to, but no matter how much you curse, a person will still not stop drinking until he wants to.
- Infidelity. This is another reason for frequent “deadly” quarrels, but why then be in a relationship if you have someone else on the side? However, sometimes a half invents treason from scratch, which is why the conflict occurs. This, by the way, is another “slippery” question - excessive and insane jealousy.
The clash of interests over which the dispute arises can manifest itself in different ways. For example, selfishness can also be called a clash. Only here it is already more and more serious and unsolvable: the egoism of one is not subject to another, relations in this case are in the hands of one.
These are only the most common questions that couples quarrel about, but believe me, none of them can destroy true love. The reasons for the clash of interests that give rise to a dispute are different, and most often they are ridiculous.