Among the huge number of memes on the Internet, there is one common and incredibly relevant in our time - ChSV, the decoding of which is known to many and, unfortunately, is close. It is a matter of self-importance. Like it or not, the overwhelming majority of the population (if not the country, then the Internet for sure) has an overly high opinion of themselves and their own opinions. Their view of these or other things is a priori the most reasonable, correct and not subject to discussion. Such people require a special attitude, although their significance is usually exaggerated and is in question. They say about such people: "ChSV rolls over!"
And they are ridiculed with the help of funny aphorisms, thematic pictures on social networks. Where do such personalities come from? Who invented the meme about self-esteem that has become so popular ? Which of the famous people can be diagnosed with CWS? How to understand if you have the prerequisites for its development? How dangerous is it and how to deal with it? Read about all this below.
About How We Learned About FAC
Let's start with where this term came from. He was introduced by a famous American writer, the esotericist scientist Castaneda. It was from him that we first learned about a phenomenon such as FAC. Deciphering this abbreviation today does not cause difficulties for any of the active Internet users. And all thanks to the Russian-language Wikipedia "Lurkomorye" - it was she who popularized the meme of ChSV, as well as many other famous Internet phenomena. Due to the lack of strict formalities (as in Wikipedia itself), this resource covers a greater number of the most diverse objects of the modern world and gives a more complete and understandable picture of them.
Who are they - people with overpriced FSW?
So, we understand what the FSS is, the decryption is known, and the source that disseminated knowledge of it, too. But in itself, a sense of self-importance could not appear, there should be its "carriers". And, of course, they are. Such people have always had enough, just the Internet helps them to "go out into the world", show themselves to a huge number of people (network users) and, accordingly, demonstrate their brightness. It’s very easy to find the carrier of ChSV - you just have to stumble upon his messages, comments on posts a couple of times, and immediately everything will become clear. All his conversations are conducted with one main goal - to draw attention to himself, to declare to the public about his own coolness and uniqueness, thereby at the same time and energize his FAC.
Among people who have an inflated and unshakable FWM, there are many famous media personalities. For example, often in social networks this characteristic was applied to the Russian designer and blogger Artemy Lebedev, television and radio host, as well as the scandalous blogger Katya Gordon, the Russian publicist, blogger and Satanist popularizer Varraks. All of them are known for their shocking tricks, selfish stance and expressive expressions in work / creativity. Around them there are always some disputes, noise, discussions and emotions (often negative), however, in most cases this is part of their plans.
Fsv in real life
With regard to celebrities and popular figures in the media, everything seems to be quite logical - they need PR, it is important for them to talk about them. What about ordinary, non-public people like you and me? Have you ever paid attention to your behavior and how you position yourself when communicating with other people (at least on the Internet, at least in real life)? Indeed, excessive FSW can be very, very interfering.
How can overstated ChSV be dangerous?
Firstly, it can negatively affect communication with other people: friends, relatives, colleagues and just surrounding us everywhere every day. How does your FAC affect them? The interpretation of this concept may sound like this: "I am the navel of the Earth." Who will like this position? It is unlikely that your colleague, and even more so the boss, will be happy to work with a person for whom his own interests are above all. What about native people? Is it easy for them to get along with you and try to please all the whims? Sooner or later, the one who communicates with the carrier of the FSB will end patience, and the relationship will break.
Secondly, an inflated ChSV harms most of all to you. The position “I am the best / ideal / always right” can easily lead to degradation, lack of self-development, deafness and blindness to the opinions and desires of others. As a result, you can become isolated and lose touch with reality. Of course, this is in especially difficult cases, but it all starts with a small one.
How not to fall into the trap of the FSW?
If you notice such behavior, thoughts, statements, then you should stop and think: “Why am I behaving this way and what can it result in?” Of course, in itself, FNM should be present in every person, but in a reasonable proportion. Low self-esteem is just as dangerous and harmful as overpriced. Try to find a balance. Adhere to your views and opinions, if they are justified, considered and balanced, but respect the opposite, different opinions. Be true to yourself, but listen to others - this is useful. As for social networks, sometimes it’s better to “pass by” some post than to get involved in empty conversations, it’s better to do something more useful and productive. Good luck