All people have negative character traits. However, some succeed, while others roll into the abyss. There are several reasons for this, and the main one is self-discipline. People who have achieved career heights and material well-being are constantly working on themselves. Moreover, the work is not so much in the fight against the weaknesses of the personality, as in the development of the necessary qualities. Weaknesses of character can be balanced by other qualities. A person may be rude, but expose this as one of the sides of decisiveness and frankness. Slow can seem like a solid and reasonable person. But only on condition that he has character traits that confirm this.
However, not all shortcomings can be so balanced so as to smooth out the corners of the personality. Such qualities of character as frivolity, irresponsibility and inability to make decisions can destroy the most brilliant career. If a person does not comply with the agreements and does not keep his word, then he will have little authority in the world of business, where the word of an entrepreneur should be law. Motivation is also not conducive to future prosperity. The desire to enjoy here and now is the level of thinking of the average man.
In order to get something in the future, one must be able to give up something in the present. 99% of stories of successful people say the same thing - about work and study. These people also had negative character traits, because no one is born perfect. However, the desire to achieve the goal made them overcome themselves and reach a new level. Everyone must grow and develop. The process of growth and self-improvement includes, among other things, working with your negative qualities and personality traits. Overcoming them, you can begin to live very differently. Most people take their character for granted and do not seek to change anything. Passive attitude towards life does not contribute to moving forward. People acquire some negative character traits in childhood, and some develop in adulthood.
The point of self-improvement is to stop for a moment and understand where you are going. Success in life depends not only on such qualities as the ability to do more than paid, and constantly learn. It is also important to pay attention to communication skills. After all, success in life often depends on the people who surround the person. Negative character traits can push them away. It is unlikely that someone will help a person who is unpleasant. Deficiencies often interfere not only in career and business, but also in personal life.
Such problems can be complex. For example, a person cannot achieve success in the material sphere because of his weaknesses. As a result, he is not able to provide for his family, scandals with his wife begin. The wife ceases to respect him, and he shows negative character traits even more. But his problems could be solved simply by eliminating their causes. The reasons may lie in complexes, low self-esteem, improper environment and much more. Usually everything that happens in a person’s life has roots in his past. Therefore, there is nothing mystical in the formula of so-called karma. What a person does, or what happens to him, affects events. This is pure psychology.
The negative sides of the personality may not be visible to others. And the person who possesses them must decide for himself whether to correct them or not. If they do not interfere with life and enjoy life, then they can be balanced harmoniously with positive qualities. Do not strive for maximalism and demand perfection from yourself. Perfect characters do not exist. There are situations in which certain traits can come in handy.