How often do we think: "To know where to fall ...". How sometimes we regret about unused opportunities or erroneous actions. Everyone would like to know and understand how to make the right decision, which would lead along the right path to the intended goal. However, we sometimes forget about the most important. That our
personality is in constant development. Solving all new tasks, faced with unusual and unusual circumstances, we are changing. So, the goals, values, priorities also do not stand still. They change with us. That is why the question of how to make the right decision is best posed for the "here and now", rather than looking ahead and even less
looking back.The author had a chance to talk with many people who sometimes found themselves at difficult life crossroads. And this is what is characteristic of those who made the impression of a self-confident, accomplished person — they did not regret the past! They did not bite their elbows, even if they had to change their lifestyle, country, and sphere of activity many times. They did not revel in self-pity if they had occasion to lose all their property and start all over again. Therefore, in order to understand how to make the right decision, you need to be clearly aware: much depends on us, but not everything. What seems right at some point may turn out to be a mistake. Precisely because more
In all, inflexible people who find it difficult to readjust and act on circumstances suffer from failures. And our path is far from always smooth and spacious. Therefore, the first advice: relieve yourself of the burden of excessive responsibility. A man is designed so that in any situation he can find both joy and disappointment. Even if you have reached your "goal", it may always seem that "the palace is too small and the molasses is too sweet."
So, how to make the right decision that you won’t regret? First of all, try to trust in fate and intuition. Very often we hesitate and doubt if there is a certain intrapersonal conflict, for example, between reason and feelings, between desires and duty. But this situation is also an incentive for development. And the intuition that we often underestimate or drown out is what helps to make the right decision. Do not think that this is something supernatural, a “voice from above”. It is rather your subconscious that processes the situation in its own way. Our elementary, physiological reactions often tell us where we will feel good and where not so good. For example, if you are looking for a new job, listen for intuition. If a conversation with a future boss sets you up in a positive way - this is a good start. But if the building itself, the atmosphere prevailing there, the appearance and manner of communication of employees cause tension and oppress, if you do not feel comfortable in this place - perhaps this is a warning.
And how to make the right decision in your personal life? The advice is the same. Do not try to reason, plan, think in higher categories. Just feel the situation, immerse yourself in your sensations. The first minutes often decide how communication with this or that person develops. And if we are comfortable, we feel safe, which means that this relationship has a future. And vice versa, if it is difficult for us to find common themes, if we are shackled, but, for example, the thought has settled in our minds that this is a great party, try to trust intuition. We live with a person, and not with his status, money or position in society.
Another technique will tell you how to learn how to make the right decisions. This method can be called "look into the future." The bottom line is to try to imagine as much as possible the possible development of events,
which will follow your choice. You are offered a job, but you do not know whether to take it? Imagine yourself in more detail and in colors in this place in a year, two, five. What does your usual working day look like, how do you dress, how do you relax? Are you pleased to enter the office or are you trying to come up with excuses to appear there as little as possible? By imagining this, you are subconsciously preparing yourself to make a decision.
And the most, perhaps, well-known and effective method is to "sleep" with a problem. By asking yourself a question in the evening before going to bed, in the morning you will get a ready-made answer. All the work for you will do the subconscious or intuition. Sometimes a conversation with a stranger is also helpful. Speaking aloud all your arguments and doubts, you thereby come to a solution. Good luck to you!