How to lure men? Despite the abundance of all kinds of literature, films and trainings on this topic, the issue remains relevant. There are many ways to attract representatives of the opposite sex, but do they all give positive results? Practice shows that no! What is the reason: there is no confidence in their actions, lack of flirting skills or the fear of taking the initiative in their hands prevents? Each woman has her own reason, and eliminating her, you can achieve the result. You only need to know some of the subtleties of the art of seduction. The purpose of this article is to familiarize you women with the most important aspects that will help you understand what men want and how to draw their attention to themselves.
Should men be seduced?
Agree, there is still an opinion in society that only a man should take the initiative. It is the woman’s destiny to sit and wait for the young man he likes to pay attention to her and take some steps towards her.
On the one hand, there is nothing wrong with this, and on the other, you risk not waiting for anything. The most beautiful romance of your life may never begin.
Psychologists in this case are unanimous: the flirtation and unobtrusive attraction of a man is an elegant, pleasant "game" for two. Many men secretly dream of being “hunted” too.
What do men want?
The methods of attraction in men and women are significantly different from each other. Do not think that the stronger sex likes only relaxed and very active girls. To lure a man, it is enough to use a certain technique of seduction.
How do men attract women? That's right: caring, beautiful courtship, the ability to show oneself strong and confident.
In addition, they immediately prioritize and strive for proximity. At the same time, men like it when the weaker sex behaves exactly the opposite.
In other words, a woman should use such “weapons” as promising looks, sometimes stealth, coquetry, secret signs sent to her chosen one, and the ability to seem weak and defenseless. The most important thing in all this is to postpone the moment of physical intimacy, along with the possession of the male imagination. The secret is that excitement in thoughts can last much longer than in the body.
How to lure men? Make them dream about themselves and draw pictures of possible pleasures in their imagination.
How to increase your chances
It is no secret that beautiful, well-groomed women enjoy the attention of the opposite sex. Therefore, if you are single and begin to think about how to lure men, urgently begin to increase your self-esteem due to your beautiful appearance.
Think over your image. Make a beautiful hairstyle, not too catchy makeup, give preference to stylish, but not eye-catching clothes.
Remember that a well-groomed look and a light pleasant aroma will complement your image and make you irresistible.
The second important point is the walk. The ability to move slowly and seductively comes with experience. Experiment, learn, choose your ideal option.
Eye catching
If the man you like is looking at you, never look away. Indeed, pretending that you do not notice that they are looking at you, you are letting the man know that he is indifferent to you or even does not like him. In such a situation, you can simply forget about a new acquaintance or communication.
How to lure men with a look? Learn to just catch his eye and not let go. Seeing that a man is looking at you, catch his eye and do not let him go. Passing by such a man, you can even pause and look at him. Thus, you give a signal that the interest is mutual and that you are ready to meet or communicate.
Smile attraction
Smile plays a huge role in seduction. Having learned to smile beautifully, and most importantly, sincerely, you can easily grab the attention of the man you like.
Any, even serious, man will prefer communication with a girl who has a good mood and a radiant smile.
Proud and selfish women only repel, depriving themselves of the possibility of pleasant communication with the opposite sex.
Enticement
All men love to feel strong, confident and in control of any situation. Give them that opportunity.
Find a reason to ask a man for help. Be sure to help you. And you, in turn, do not forget to thank your savior and admire his strength, skill and dexterity.
Do not present yourself as an easily accessible woman. If you dream of a serious relationship, you are looking for a man worthy and loving, also become natural and sincere.
Do not reject men, communicate with pleasure, but do not agree to all offers at once. Experience the man you like not in words, but in actions and deeds.
Date: how to behave
It is during a date that a woman can form the right attitude towards herself in a man.
Where to invite a man and is it worth it? Stereotypic thinking prohibits women from taking initiative.
But think about this situation on the other hand: men and women present their own rest in different ways. In most cases, for women, relaxation is aimed at communication with the possibility of making some valuable information. A woman pays attention to appearance, thoughts and feelings.
What do men need? They just want to relax, "get away" from reality, plunging headlong into a football game, drinking with friends, active sports ...
How to combine such different preferences? You just need to find a "middle ground". Turn on fantasy and be original. In addition to the usual places for dating, such as a theater, restaurant and disco, there are places that can give a man a whole range of pleasant emotions and feelings.
Here are some examples of where you can invite a man to leave a lasting impression on his date:
- Riding a bike. Racing, riding a car or motorbike will rarely leave a man indifferent. In addition, such a joint pastime will give an adrenaline rush and a lot of vivid impressions.
- Shooting gallery If you don’t know how to shoot, invite an instructor to understand the basics of shooting at a shooting range. Your man can also teach you a lesson and prove once again his strength, accuracy and skill.
- Diving. Joint diving will make you closer. It’s also so romantic ...
- Boat trip. This method is suitable for lovers of romance.
How to seduce with words and what to talk about
The question of what to talk with a man on a date is one of the most important. And the answer is simple! Learn to start by just listening to your man. Listen and follow him. If he likes to talk about new music, tell him about your preferences. Ask him questions, ask what he likes.
Behave at ease, the main thing is to be comfortable and easy with you.
There are several secrets, special words that will make a man think about you, dream about you and try to figure out what your "riddle" is.
Speak the words to the man gently and affectionately. Effective in the art of seduction will be a half-breath with the words: “how good!” at the moment when you enjoyed a delicious drink or, for example, turned your face in the heat under a fan. This half-breath should by no means resemble a sexual sigh;
The strongest effect will be taken by phrases that have a double meaning both in the working and in the sexual sense: “When we are finished (eating), we will order coffee”, “It's time to get down to business” (put away in the car).
Most importantly, remember that the cutest sound for any person is their name. Use this secret more often.
Well, of course, as a way of seduction, compliments to a man with recognition of his physical beauty, strength and mind work perfectly. It is only important to do everything sincerely.
It does not matter which man you are interested in: whether it is a man older, your peer or a man younger than you, remember that the chances of a long relationship will increase if you have common topics for communication.
Be mysterious and charming, natural and in a good mood, and then you will succeed. You will certainly be happy.