I am a person who does not want to do anything. How to change?

Crisis moments happen in every person’s life. Some days, nothing happens, and laziness is felt so acutely that there simply is no strength to pack up and do at least something. The good news is that after such a period of calm, the ascent usually begins, and in a matter of hours we redo all the work and find time for an interesting vacation. But what to do if you have met a person who does not want to do anything constantly. Or if that is how you can be characterized?

We are trying to identify the causes of inaction

A man who does not want to do anything
Some people are really very lazy in nature. From early childhood, they barely gather for classes, then somehow study at the institute, because as it should be, having entered adulthood, they remain unorganized and passive observers. If you look, it’s easy to understand that such individuals do not know how to gather and do not have special ambitions. Often a person who does not want to do anything simply does not have the right motivation. Self-organization is also lacking for such people. It’s worth starting with setting goals. Think about what you would like to achieve. If there are no sincere desires, try to convince yourself that achieving this or that height will help you significantly improve your life. Write down the goals found, even if they seem unattainable to you now. And make plans to achieve them.

From planning to action

A man who does nothing
It does not matter what you want, buy a car or enter into a profitable marriage. Remember that a person who does nothing is unlikely to achieve anything. In fact, in order to make a major purchase, you should only start earning more (take a higher position or find an additional source of income), learn how to save money and, perhaps, take a loan, if you have the opportunity to repay it in a timely manner. If you are a person who does not want to do anything, do not forget to remind yourself of your dream every day. You must remember that even your most insignificant action brings you closer to the fulfillment of desire. Also think about how much better you will become when you reach your goal.

I’m sitting, I’m not doing anything, but my dreams come true?

I'm doing nothing
If you manage to develop the right strategy, you can achieve your goal with minimal effort. Try to make the process fun. You can please yourself with some little things for every successful week. For example, take a rest, or make minor purchases. Even the laziest person who does not want to do anything will become more active as soon as his life becomes more interesting. Try to get more vivid emotions. For example, persuade yourself to quickly do a boring job in order to have lunch with friends. If you save money for some major purchase, you can please yourself with intangible things. Suppose you allow yourself to spend several hours on Saturday in front of the TV or at the computer because you managed to postpone a good amount for a week. Or go for a walk all day. In order to always remain active and cheerful, do not forget to come up with new desires and goals in a timely manner. And remember that there is no limit to perfection.

Source: https://habr.com/ru/post/C46651/


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