There is nothing absolute in the world. What one person likes doesn't always fit another. And this is normal, because each person is individual. Now I want to talk about the theme of "perfect day." What can it be and what depends on it?
Terminology
Initially, you need to deal with the term itself. What does the word "ideal" mean? Explanatory dictionaries say that this is what corresponds to the ideal, very good, expected and pleasant. From this we can draw a pretty simple conclusion that the perfect day for each person will be special. It is important for someone to take a good and active walk, for someone to relax, and for someone to get better.
About modernity
Understanding what an ideal day can be, you need to turn to the culture of modernity, consider the moral principles and foundations, desires and moods of the majority. Generally speaking, today's society is people-consumers.
Advertising, propaganda of “things indispensable for life”, imposing by the mass media and trademarks “correct” and beautiful, in their opinion, life today forms the views of most teenagers and youth. That is why for many people the ideal day will be when you can spend a lot of money for your pleasure. But on what - this is a separate story. Someone will buy up half of the women's clothing store, someone will acquire a lot of equipment, and someone will even go on a short trip.
Perfect day for a modern girl
Based on the foregoing, it is easy to imagine the perfect day for the perfect girl.
No one will argue with the fact that a woman primarily attracts attention with her appearance. That is why she always needs to look not just good, but attractive. For this reason, the day of every self-respecting lady begins with makeup, hairstyles and selection of clothes for the day. You can’t forget about breakfast here. Fruits, granola, juice or warm invigorating green tea - no extra calories and satiety for an extremely long time.
If we talk about the perfect day, then the girl does not go to work. She goes to a beauty salon to perfect her appearance. Then he visits a cafe with a girlfriend, goes for a walk in the park or other interesting place. Be sure to a girl should look into the store to purchase a new dress, beautiful shoes or a breathtaking handbag.
A light afternoon snack to a volume of Baudelaire or Nietzsche - isn’t this wonderful? Again, a walk or meeting with friends, gatherings and talking with interesting people. Well, the evening must end with a trip to a fashion club, where the girl "comes off" to the full on the dance floor.
Many will doubt: is this a perfect day? To each his own, but just such a picture, the modern media is diligently imposing on the younger generation.
Girl's day in numbers
Scientists were also very interested in the question, what should be a perfect day for a woman? What does a woman want and how she wants to spend her time? That is why a group of specialists conducted a simple study, interviewing many women. Based on this, the following conclusions were made:
- the first place in the rating of desires for girls is occupied precisely by intimate relationships. For such communication with men, ideally, ladies want to devote about 100 minutes;
- communication with interesting people should take about 80 minutes a day, and rest - about 70 minutes;
- girls take 75 minutes to consume food;
- for physical exercises and meditation - 70 minutes daily;
- for watching TV and sitting in front of a computer monitor, the ladies are ready to set aside one hour a day;
- on intermediate matters - talking on the phone, shopping, cooking, homework, women are not ready to spend more than 50 minutes;
- rest for girls is important, because the appearance of a lady, and, accordingly, beauty, depends on this. Therefore, women are ready to spend 45 minutes on daytime sleep;
- young ladies and modern ladies are ready to devote no more than an hour a day to child care;
- well, women are assigned half an hour to work - 30 minutes to complete tasks, and 30 minutes to travel to the place of work.
That’s how much time the ladies are ready to devote to various matters, so that the day will end up being good or even close to ideal.
About men
Along with this, I also want to figure out what he is, the perfect day for a man? What do representatives of the strong half of humanity think and desire? Everything is a little simpler here. Guys don't have as many needs as ladies. It is important for men to know that they are earners. That is why for more than half of the guys the day will be ideal when they can fully satisfy the needs of their family or the second half in material terms. After that, men also need to have a good rest. An alternative to watching movies lying on the couch is doing your favorite thing, sports. A very important part of men's life is friends. That is why it is so important for representatives of a strong half of humanity to communicate with their comrades as often as possible.
The main advice of psychologists
Experts from various fields of knowledge, including psychologists, talk and write a lot about how an ideal day should be. But they all argue: only life that is aimed at self-improvement of a person can be ideal. On the search for his "I", on its development and improvement. In life, the main thing is to understand what exactly you want, to set priorities, to decide on the desired future. And only in this case, not a single day, but all life can be confidently called ideal.
Psychologists exercise
Often you can hear the question: what is your ideal day? And the first time few can answer it. In this case, you need to thoroughly “dig into” yourself and find out what is really important. And to do everything right, you can use a simple exercise.
To do this, you need to take a piece of paper, a pen, gather your thoughts, secluded in a convenient place for yourself. One must imagine that there is an endless amount of money. Next, emphasis should be placed on how ideal the day might be, whether it was the last one in life or one that can be repeated without problems day after day. To do this, you have to paint a few simple positions.
- Location, ideal location.
- What a person sees when he wakes up, about whom he first thinks.
- What a person does all day, what types of work he prefers.
- What kind of people communicate in dreams, how much time it takes.
- What are your plans for the evening, what could be considered the perfect end to the day.
- Who is thinking before bedtime.
So, you need to think out your ideal day in great detail. One must follow the call of the heart. It is important to pay attention to the first instincts, the first thoughts that arise during the answer to a question. This is the subconscious that is important to pay attention to. After such an exercise, much can be clarified. Sometimes even priorities change, life style and manner of communication change. In addition, psychologists argue that visualizing the desired is a great way to achieve what you want.
Favourite buisness
No one will argue that for a normal life you have to earn money without always doing what you want. That is why it is better to choose a job so that it, at a minimum, is not disgusting. At the workplace, a person spends quite a lot of time. That is why, so that life is not just tolerable, but even close to ideal, you must either love your work, finding a vocation there, or change it. Famous people say: the best job is a hobby, for which you also get money. So if something in life does not triple and it is very difficult to talk about ideal existence, maybe it is worth changing jobs and trying to do something else?
Schedule
Separately, I also want to talk about what could be the ideal daily routine. What is important to consider in this case? First of all, the wishes and needs of a single person. However, there is a certain standard that everyone should fulfill.
- It is important to get up correctly in the morning. No need to jump out of bed. It is better to start the alarm 5 minutes earlier and this time lie down in bed, slowly waking up. So the nervous system comes into an active state, without undergoing minor daily stress.
- Do not forget to do exercises. After all, health is the key to a successful person.
- The start of an ideal day is a hearty breakfast. And to make the day perfect, you need to follow the proverb: "Eat breakfast yourself, share lunch with a friend, and give dinner to the enemy."
- Next you need to go to work. And in order not to get bored and notice the imperfections of the world around you, you can either listen to music or read your favorite literature.
- For life to be perfect, one must become a good person himself. A minimum of negativity, curses, black thoughts - and life itself will become brighter and more pleasant.
- It is very important to communicate only with positive, good and interesting people. If a person causes negative emotions, it is best to stop all contact with him.
- It is very important during the lunch break and after work to take a walk in the fresh air, cleansing the head and flexing the body.
- After work, you can go to the gym, sit in a cozy place or take a walk with friends, do what you love.
- The evening should be spent with nice people. Best of all - in the circle of relatives.
These simple tips will not make life in itself better. However, they will help to look at being from a different angle. Or maybe even change their attitude and views on what is happening.
About birthday
And at the very end I want to talk about what should be the perfect birthday. Everything is extremely simple here. To do this, you only need to meet those people who really want to see on this day. Get what you really want. And to do what you cannot afford on any other day. Just give yourself the desire. No matter how much it costs in monetary terms and whatever costs it incurs. Only in this case it will be possible to say with confidence: my birthday was perfect!