Creating a new family is quite easy - you need to apply and just sign up at the registry office. For this, it is not even necessary to go for a wedding. But far from everyone knows what to do next, how to improve relations between husband and wife after marriage.
Preliminary discussion
What is needed to prevent surprises after the wedding? It's simple, you can try to discuss all the nuances of a family future life, or you can even try to live together, seeing if it is easy for a couple in everyday life. So it will become clear whether the relationship between the husband and wife will be able to normalize after the marriage ceremony.
Roles
Everyone knows the old saying that the husband is the head and the wife is the neck. Do not resist this, because it’s even more popular wisdom than just a saying. From this it follows that only a woman should lead the family life. But this does not mean at all that only a woman is engaged in household chores: she cooks, cleans, erases. Roles in the house should be distributed equally (unless, of course, the wife is not a housewife). It will not be difficult for a man to wash dishes daily and to help with cleaning on weekends. But it is necessary to accustom the husband to this, nevertheless in the parental family he could not do this.
Conflicts
Not a single normal relationship between husband and wife will develop without conflict, there is always something that will cause a dispute or resentment of one half of the couple. How to behave in such situations? A huge number of options, but there are a couple of very practical advice. Even in conflict situations, you need to think with your head, completely turning off emotions, this will save the couple from many protracted quarrels. Also, it is not necessary to beat the beloved person in the most sensitive places in the conflict fervor, this is easy to do, but then you will have to rake it all up. Well, and another tip: in a quarrel, you should not affect the relatives of your soulmate, no matter how harmful they may be. Anyway, for a partner, they both were and will remain a family, do not “hit” the most expensive.
Leisure
What other advice can psychology give? Between husband and wife, everything will be fine when the couple has a common hobby, and they can spend free time together and relax. It is good for this to also have a common circle of friends. After all, a couple should support each other not only in grief, but also in joy. But here it is also important not to overdo it, because each partner from a couple needs a separate rest, say, "rest from each other." Therefore, running away from one's half is not only possible, but also necessary. But it is always better to notify your loved one when you want to relax alone, so that you do not need to disturb him in vain.
The trust
Not a single normal relationship between husband and wife will be built without trust. Always and in everything. If someone has a secret, it can be said the beginning of the end. But here it is also worth dividing the zones. There are special things that a partner simply does not need to know about; you should not let your loved one (s) go there. The rest is only trust and no secrets.
Solution of problems
And one more very important advice. In order for the relationship between husband and wife to be normal, all the conflicts that arise must be resolved. They can not be avoided or put off. If you don’t like something or don’t like it, you need to immediately put everything on the table. And if you accumulate resentment and disappointment, and then dump everything in a mass on your lover, this will not make anyone any better. Everything is on time and in order, then peace, rest and mutual understanding will reign in the family.