Everyone probably heard a word like "loser." Who is this, you know?
This word is of English origin. "Loser" is translated into Russian as "loser." Everything seems to be clear here. But it is not so. The ideas about what the word "loser" (loser) means are completely different for everyone and everywhere.
Moreover, human education does not play any role. Someone considers losers pessimists, someone unlucky, someone in general scum of society. So let's figure out what the word "loser" means in modern society.
Big ambition
And yet a loser man,
who is this? This is someone who wants to get everything at once, but he doesn’t even try to do anything to make his dreams come true. As a rule, such people are constantly full of hatred and envy of others, the government. However, they usually do not even come to the polls because they are too lazy.
Some of the losers simply adore crime chronicle. News about the killings, accidents and robberies evoke only positive emotions and comments, such as "I said that the world is going to hell!"
Losers consider themselves very smart, they just are unlucky in life, you see. They will never help anyone. Of course, losers can respond to a petty request, such as to help bring a suitcase. However, real help or sacrifice from them is not worth waiting for.
Eternal losers
Losers are out of luck all the time. And their bad luck is chronic: the husband drinks and beats his wife and children, his wife walks, the children drink and smoke, the roof leaks, the washing machine constantly breaks, and the computer freezes. They go the wrong way all their lives, they love the wrong ones, marry by chance, buy during the price hike and sell at the lowest prices. It even seems to such people that when they issue money at an ATM, they will have a flaw ...
Losers always lack money. They want everything at once! However, instead of dreaming about how they will create a business and start earning money, they dream about how they will spend money. True, sometimes such people even have money, but they still will always have little and nothing.
Parent-loser, who is it?
Is that possible? It seems erroneously that the meaning of "loser" refers only to inveterate bachelors. It is not always so. Absolutely different layers of the population fall into this category. A loser can be a burly mother of the family, and a father with many children. Although, parents of them are usually useless.
The fact is that raising children is hard work. And as mentioned above, losers do not like to strain. Therefore, such grief-parents are trying in every possible way to get rid of their duties. They prefer to take their children to day-care centers, kindergartens, boarding schools, send them in three shifts to summer camps or toss them to their parents. Thus, they place all the responsibility for raising their children on other people, which makes their life much easier. And they attribute their mistakes in raising children to school.
And the news that their children are registered with the police and at odds with the law does not surprise them at all. After all, their whole life is unlucky ...
They can not be spared
Losers complain all the time. This is their favorite pastime. They do not notice life itself, its colors, ups, downs and sunny days. Do not see other people and all the good in them. After all, they are engaged in an eternal struggle with themselves, with others or with the wind that blew in their direction.
Why is this happening? Is there any way to help the loser? Better not worth it.
The fact is that their psychology is flawed and leads down. If you "understood" him, admitted that he was "unlucky all the time" - you took a step down next. If you admitted that in this life something may not depend on you, that all the bad things you have done can be justified, that you are not to blame for your failures - the failures will come. Just because you assumed it was possible.
It is better to stay away from losers as far as possible, they should not be listened to and regretted. Otherwise, they can drag you into the world of complaints and failures.
Now that you know what the word "loser" means, who it is and how to recognize it, you suddenly thought that you have similar traits. Are you scared? So that's great! So you're definitely not a loser!
How not to become like them?
In order not to become a loser, it is necessary to observe some laws of the universe:
1. Never envy. Do not waste your precious time on this bad feeling.
2. Try to forget about old failures, grievances and disappointments. Do not spoil your karma with all this. Know how to forgive.
3. Get pleasure from the activity itself, and not from what it will bring benefits.
4. Be selfless and help others.
5. Do not be lazy and do not blame others for everything. Start making the world a better place for yourself. And be kinder to others, then they will begin to pay you the same.
6. Keep in touch with relatives. Family is the most reliable support and strong rear. Frequent changes of partners only lead to the fact that in the end the person remains completely alone.
7. Be thrifty, but don't be stingy.
8. Listen to other people's advice and choose the ones that are useful to you.