To live in harmony with society, you must follow the rules and standards of conduct. Everyone should remember the principles of morality and honor in order to prevent conflict situations. If people disdain the rules, then society turns away from them, because they cause contempt and disrespect. In society, for any of them there is a definition - “a lost person”, but what does this mean?
Principles and Norms
A person cannot live outside society - he needs constant communication with other people. But in order for society to be filled with harmony, each person must show respect for his brothers. If people begin to neglect the rules, step over moral principles and ethics, commit unforgivable acts, then society rejects them.
Based on that, you can determine who such a lost person is. This is one who acts immoral and immoral, transgresses customs and commandments, does not see borders and borders. In other words, anyone who breaks the law, allows himself to insult other people, kills himself by abusing drugs and alcohol, refuses to make honest work and behaves extremely aggressively, hurting others, can become a person lost to society.
Point of no return
There are always borders that cannot be crossed. For example, if a man beats women, then he is immoral. If people can commit adultery while in society, then they are immoral.
As a rule, a lost person does not see these boundaries, considering his behavior quite acceptable. He does not pay any attention to the fact that it is painful and difficult for his relatives to endure such changes.
For millennia, norms and moral principles have been introduced into society in order to eradicate aggression and violence from it, which led to war and genocide, as well as to get rid of harmful habits that obscure the mind.
It all depends on the person himself
Morally omitted people do not want to live in harmony with society. They simply do not understand that with every act that hurts others, they fall even lower. And even if they try to become a moral person again, obeying the laws and commandments, in most cases they will not be able to.
And all because such people lose their identity and spirituality in the first place. They see the world cruel to them, cannot find a haven and are not able to do useful work. They do not feel joy, they do not have a vital core that would help to consolidate them in society and grow in it, reaching any heights. On the contrary, such people blame others for their troubles and take out aggression and anger on them.
They are around us
Sometimes you may not suspect that a lost person is present in your environment. He will look absolutely normal, but out of sight such people change and turn into a completely immoral personality. For example, someone is abusing alcohol and refuses help from outside. He goes to work, communicates with friends, but all his free time drowns out his invisible pain with strong drinks that cloud the mind, turning it from an ambitious person into an animal.
Another striking example of a moral decline is lawbreakers. For the sake of profit, such people are ready to have violent actions against others. They are not ashamed to hit the weak and rob him; their conscience will not torment them if they deceive the sick or old and leave him homeless. A lost person considers all his actions to be correct and justified, because he is "trying to survive." But he is not at all embarrassed by the fact that because of his actions, someone was hurt.
Lying is not good
Another category of fallen people is incorrigible liars. Most of them need psychological help, as they cannot cope with their craving to deceive anyone. They are capable of hypocrisy and lead a double life, sometimes only in order to arouse the sympathy and attention of others, but more often, for the sake of material gain. For example, at work, such people talk about the deadly diseases of their relatives, about a difficult fate and an unbearable life, although, in fact, all the relatives are healthy, and the person himself does not need money or help.
No life joy
Lost people are not difficult to recognize. They do not strive for anything, they are not interested in anything. As a rule, such people have no meaning in life and, most importantly, there is no desire to change this.
When a person has no meaning and joy in life, they begin to slowly kill themselves. At first, not physically, but morally. When he steps over invisible borders, he begins to destroy his flesh, addicted to drugs and alcohol, trying to drown out their inner void, but instead dipping lower and lower.
If we refer to Michelson’s explanatory and phraseological dictionary, then “a lost person” is “incorrigible, perished”. This means that such people lose their own "I" and live with the thought that it is too late to change something, and there is no point, and therefore you can ignore anyone and nothing.
A lost person can still change his life if he begins to respect the centuries-old principles and norms of morality. Only the morality revived in him, the ability to appreciate other people's work and give good to the world around him, will help him find a realizable goal and vital core.