Is it possible to understand a man? Almost every woman asks herself this question. After all, sometimes we simply do not understand their actions, incorrectly evaluate them, we are offended. However, in most cases, it turns out that men simply see some things differently.
Stress and men
Three main symptoms confirming that the stronger sex are very stressed are described by male psychology. For women, the ability to recognize these signs is becoming important. Since withdrawal, disabling, grunting, we very often take it personally. However, at this moment, our beloved ones more than ever need our support. Let's dwell on these points in more detail.
Self-care
The first thing that happens with the stronger sex in a stressful situation is that a person closes, and at the same time he can begin to deny his feelings, his pain. However, women very often perceive such behavior as if a man thereby manifests his dislike for her. It is worthwhile to understand that he becomes indifferent to other people's emotions, as well as to his own. Thus, the strongest defense mechanisms that male psychology describes are triggered. It becomes necessary for women to understand that at these moments a man is simply trying to fight those feelings that are painful for him. Usually any
An attempt to help is rejected.
Grouchiness
It especially manifests itself when a woman asks for something to be done. A man begins to frown, “growl”, mumble, sometimes respond more rudely. A woman perceives this as a sign of bad mood, inability to support her at this moment. However, during stress, a man becomes simply more focused. And any request that is not related to the goal will be perceived as a kind of obstacle. This is male psychology. For women, this should be a sign that he is ready to do what he is asked for, but he is resisting for reasons important to him.
Disconnect
This is actually an automatic defensive reaction to painful emotions. Usually it means that a man needs free space. However, a woman begins to perceive the situation as neglect of her. “Disconnecting”, the strong sex as if signals others that it does not need help, and asks thereby not to get to it. This is how male psychology interprets this behavior. It will be better for women if they perceive such behavior as a desire to protect their beloved from their "male" problems.
Male look
Of course, if the school had the subject “Psychology for Men”, we women would live much better. But for now, it’s worth understanding that emotions and feelings are hidden behind their straightforwardness . Sometimes a woman takes offense at men's carelessness. However, it is worth remembering that the opposite sex evaluates a holistic image, not individual elements. He may consider his chosen one very beautiful, but not pay attention to a hairstyle or a new make-up. Reading books on the psychology of relationships, you will understand that no man will agree to be commanded. Therefore, do not indicate directly what and how he needs to do it. It’s easier to turn the situation around so that he thinks he has made an important decision. And remember that no matter how strong our men may be, they also need support and affection.