The family is a social institution, an equal union of a man and a woman, a fortress in which we feel protected. But it still needs to be built, and the relationship in marriage should be truly strong and happy. There are certain symbols of the institution of the family, the significance of which we will consider here.
Chamomile
Currently, in our country, the sign of pure love is chamomile, in addition, it also means fidelity, tenderness and simplicity. Its white color represents purity, and the yellow center represents a home. It is as if the petals are united into one whole - into a strong family. This flower has become a symbol of Family Day, love and fidelity, celebrated in Russia since 2008. It reflects a pure and great feeling. It is recommended in summer to keep chamomile bouquets at home, and in other seasons it would be nice to hang ikebana, consisting of at least 5 chamomile flowers, at home.
The designation of the family is also open hands, which imply the unity of relatives and the warmth that they give each other.
Ancient family symbols
The Slavs worshiped the forces of nature, and this was reflected in the manufacture of amulets. Such symbols could be found everywhere: they were not only a means of decoration, but, according to legend, they provided some protection and attracted luck.
So, among these signs that our distant ancestors used, we can distinguish such as Solard, Ladinets, Kolard, Bunny, Wedding. They give protection to family members. Let's consider them in more detail.
Solard - marks prosperity, prosperity. The Kolard sign is a similar symbol, the difference is that the swastika of these signs is located in different ways: clockwise and against it. It helps strengthen the family union, and gives offspring health.
These two signs are sunny and fiery, they are aimed at maintaining well-being in the house, and patronize those who live in peace and harmony.
Ladin symbolizes happiness, love and harmony in the family. It is a truly female amulet, for example, provides protection from the evil eye. For married women, it becomes important to protect the family hearth, well-being and prosperity in the house. Often the pair to this amulet was Kolyadnik, which was the personification of male power. In those days, the goddess Lada was considered the patroness of women , and the god Kolyada of men. The combination of these two signs is a unity of the two sexes, mutual understanding between them, the strengthening of marriage ties, and, of course, true love.
Bunny personifies the update and is considered a patrimonial amulet. During pregnancy, it was customary to wear a belt with this sign, it was believed that he gives the mother and baby light, solar energy.
Powerful family symbol.
The wedding is considered a strong amulet. It means the merger of male and female principles, two genera into one. From ancient times, the Slavs attached great importance to the ceremony of marriage and the institution of marriage. This sign was given, as usual, by the parents to the newlyweds after the wedding ceremony. It is intended exclusively for a married couple. The image of this symbol is a combination of four rings of red and blue as an infinity sign.
Feng Shui: symbols of family well-being
In practice, Feng Shui is considered a symbol of inseparability and devotion in a married couple. A figurine of mandarin ducks is considered. As a rule, it is placed in the southwestern part of the home. Also in this teaching, the signs of the family are trees. Among them, one can distinguish bamboo, cypress, pine, plum. In addition, a dragon figure can contribute to well-being. It brings good luck, protects all members of the family.
Photos of household members within the framework are also peculiar talismans. They should be located in the eastern part of the home. Frames should be rectangular in shape and made of wood. The color is desirable to choose green or blue.
Family Welfare Icons
It is recommended that you keep the following images at home: the Keeper and Protector of your family, St. Peter and Fevronia of Murom. The icon of the Blessed Virgin Mary "Fadeless Color" gives protection to spouses.
Also, the image by which parents bless the young is a symbol of the family and brings happiness.
Household items that are amulets
Symbols of family and marriage: bast shoes, house figure, canvas, horseshoe, bagel, chain. Onion - a talisman. Bread means wealth and harmony in the house. Sunflower seeds promise health to children. Corn - family cohesion, procreation, protection against diseases, mutual understanding. Female and male figures tied with strings - inextricability of bonds and love. Knot - a charm against scandals.
Wedding symbols
A symbol of love and family well-being is also a pair of pigeons. No wonder there is such a wedding tradition as letting these birds fly to heaven.
Wedding rings are symbols of a family, an unbreakable union between a man and a woman who marry. By exchanging rings, the spouses pass each other a part of their energy. It is recommended in the first months after the wedding not to remove them and not to let anyone try on.
Veil - gives the bride protection from the evil eye. The custom of putting it on a wedding came from Poland. She kind of creates an energy shield that reflects the negative directed towards the bride. At the same time, after the wedding, it is necessary to carefully store the veil, it will serve as a talisman that can protect a young family.
The bride’s bouquet is another important attribute. According to legend, that girl who will catch him should soon marry, this is because she begins to radiate a special energy, and the wreath seems to go to her. It is better that white flowers are present in the bouquet: they are a sign of purity and eternity.
The magic symbol for the family is the loaf. Only in order to become one does it need to be baked correctly. Mom, relative or godmother of the bride, that close woman who has a well-developed family life, should work on its production . It must be baked so that it has a neat shape, without cracks.
Symbols of the family are laid out on the loaf, which give protection to the young couple. As they are often used flowers, birds, viburnum, mint and rye. The loaf is distributed to all guests, so that the energy of the two families merges together.
Towel - it must be embroidered by the bride herself, in secret from everyone. She should be alone and in complete silence. Previously, the girl reads a prayer. When embroidering, her thoughts should be positive and filled with ideas about future family life. Work must begin on Thursday. It is embroidered on a clean and whole canvas. Towel is a symbol of the life path that the family must go together.
Parents bless the young on it, while no strangers should be at home. The rushnyk has a male and female half, so it is important to stand on it correctly during the blessing. From this moment, this attribute acquires the value of a talisman. The ceremony must certainly take place on Sunday.
Parental blessing is an important symbol of family happiness. Attributes in this case are the icon of the Mother of God for the bride, and for the groom - the icon of Christ the Savior.
Stones symbolizing family happiness
These include:
- Beryl is a sign of family, fidelity and love.
- Aquamarine - protects the happiness of spouses.
- Sapphire is a stone of love, family and fidelity.
- Carnelian - keeps home peace, happiness and protects from evil spells.
Thus, we determined that there are many different designations of the institution of marriage, and interpreted the meaning of the symbols of family and love. They have been used since ancient times, when they firmly believed that the mysterious forces of nature can help in building happiness. Be that as it may, one should not forget that the basis of true well-being in the family is sincere love, respect and loyalty.