Love for all living things is inherent in man by nature itself. Someone can not pass by a homeless puppy, and someone prefers to start exotic animals at home or keep an aquarium. There are people who love cats. The psychology of feline representatives also has its own characteristics. After all, the informed choice of a four-legged friend can tell a lot about the nature of its owner. As the famous writer M. Twain said, cats differ from other pets in that they cannot be forced to obey in any way. These animals will never become slaves. And under no circumstances will cats do what they themselves do not wish.
People who love cats
The psychology of dogs, unlike meowing animals, is simple and understandable. They quickly learn to carry out commands, well give in to training. Maybe that’s why ardent cat-catters prefer the wayward character of a cat. She is independent, stubborn. The cat prefers to walk on its own, as was noted in the famous work of R. Kipling. But, despite this, she is able to truly become attached to a person. And, having become his friend not involuntarily, but of his own free will, he can love sincerely and forever.
Getting a cat in the house, we automatically seek communication with the wild. In fact, this is a small tiger that you can pick up and caress. Mostly fluffy pets are preferred by women, but it happens that a man loves cats. Our psychology is designed so that sooner or later we all strive to create a family and a cozy home. And purr is a symbol of home well-being, calmness and reliability. The soft creature curled up in a ball, purring peacefully on the couch, gives a feeling of warmth and a stable lifestyle. Love for a cat often characterizes a man as an exemplary family man, a caring father. Such a person appreciates home comfort, feminine affection, order and cleanliness, and a delicious lunch. If a guy prefers cats to dogs, then he will look for a life partner. Bright, beautiful, graceful and independent. But at the same time affectionate, tender and able to give love.
Pet Selection and Awareness of Responsibility
The psychology of cats is so unique that raising them requires a special approach. Having decided to get this half-wild beast in the house, it is necessary to remember great responsibility. After all, this is not a hamster that will live only a few years. When starting a cat, you should be aware that it will become the owner’s companion for its entire life. She will have to put up with her behavior, with hair on all surfaces, including clothing and food. Moreover, this pleasure is not cheap. The animal needs proper nutrition, care, it can get sick. And then you will have to spend a lot on the services of a veterinarian. But if all these worries do not scare you, then you belong to the category of people who are called "cat lovers." Your psychology is designed so that any whims of the pet will be perceived as little pranks. And communication with him will give only positive emotions and charge you with a good mood.
The nature and temperament of cats
Cats live by instinct. German scientists have revealed an interesting pattern. It turned out that the psychology of cats and cats is determined by their color. Striped animals are more independent, they are very reluctant to make contact with humans. They prefer to be left to their own devices. Cats of black color, on the contrary, are sociable, love affection. White feline representatives are monogamous. They are attached only to one owner, giving him all the attention, allowing only him to stroke himself. But black and white are usually harmless, they adore children, allowing them to squeeze themselves. Tricolor and redheads are somewhat phlegmatic, a bit strange, slow. But these statements are not an axiom and are not always true. The psychology of cats, the nature and characteristics of their behavior also depend on what type of temperament the animal belongs from birth. And other qualities are added to this base as they grow older. There are four types of these:
- Sanguine. Such a cat quickly gets used to the new environment, loves children. She easily gets along with other pets, is mobile and moderately active.
- Choleric. The psychology of cats and cats of this type is vibrant. Their mood quickly changes, they are quick-tempered and somewhat nervous, meow loudly, growl. The pet will not tolerate resentment or restrain emotions. He prefers to immediately give back with his paw or bite an opponent. Be it a person or another animal. You never know in advance what to expect from him. It is more interesting for such a cat to live with a master who leads an active lifestyle and himself is distinguished by an explosive temperament. In a house with small children with choleric cats, you need to keep an eye out. The child can unknowingly pull the tail, pin down the paw, for which he will receive a rebuff.
- Phlegmatic person. This is a calm, slightly slow and calm cat. She rarely shows emotion, restrained and very withdrawn. She can sleep around the clock or languidly watch attempts to draw her into the game. Such a cat will appeal to couch potatoes, elderly or busy people who rarely go home.
- Melancholic. This is a very sensitive and touchy animal. You can not shout at him, let alone physically punish him. Cats are timid, afraid of strangers or new interior items. The psychology of melancholic cats is characterized by great devotion and love for humans. But they stop their choice only on one owner, who becomes their friend, because they are monogamous.
Knowing the characteristics of temperament will help you choose the right pet, because the rudiments of the distinctive features are clearly visible at a very young age. The character manifests itself in the process of communication with brothers and sisters, with a cat mother. It is enough just to observe the behavior and play of the baby in order to understand what his temper is.
Dog and Cat Relations
The relationship of these completely different animals is well described in the work of K. Lorenz, "Man Finds a Friend." A book in which the psychology of cats and dogs is revealed from all sides must necessarily become a desktop. Especially if a person plans to start the home of these pets at the same time. The author describes life situations from personal experience in detail, gives recommendations and advice. Differences between animals of the sea. Take at least body language, a large part of which is given to the tail. The dog, wagging its tail, shows joy, greeting, willingness to make contact. A nervous trembling of the cat's tail signals displeasure and irritation. The first meeting of seemingly irreconcilable enemies, the most important. Depending on how it goes, and further relationships of animals will be built. But friendship between them can arise, especially if you teach them to each other from a very young age. Even if it was possible to establish a connection and the pets are already sleeping and playing together, this does not mean that they should all have one thing in common. Each of them needs its own personal space, a separate corner with a bowl for food, as well as an equal amount of attention of the owner. Purrs are more prone to territorial aggression, so the psychology of cats is arranged.
The book also describes how it is best to teach animals to live together so as to injure the psyche of both as little as possible. It is believed that the settlement in the cat's house to an already living dog is the most favorable situation. After all, dogs worry less about their territory and are more obedient, if, of course, they are properly raised. It is also noted that larger breeds of dogs become attached to a small kitten faster. Animals that love each other begin to care for each other, sleep together, eat from one bowl.
What are cat poses talking about?
It is generally accepted that feline representatives are more fond of straightforward, frank and fair people. Cats, whose psychology is different from dogs, can become their faithful friends, but not slaves. You can find a common language with a cat if you know the features of its behavior. It’s worth paying attention to everything: posture, manner of movement, voice, ears and tail. Cats use not only sounds to express needs. More often they prefer to communicate using gestures and facial expressions, and sometimes a whole set of characters.
The love of cats, whose psychology has not yet been fully understood, is an incentive to study and understand the habits of the beast. Cat poses are graceful and can tell a lot about her:
- Calm, observation - the cat sits with its tail wrapped in paws.
- Greeting - the cat rubs against the owner’s feet, stepping from paw to paw.
- Love and disposition - rubs his face and mustache on the face or legs of the owner.
- Thought - lies on the back.
- Warning - a sharp flap of the tail.
- Bullying - the back is arched.
- Threat - wool on end, paws straight and elongated.
The cat's tail raised up speaks of friendliness, lowered and disheveled - about confusion. A tail pointing down and tapping on the floor - the cat is scared. Nervous twitching of the tail from side to side, whipping them on the sides means the highest degree of aggression.
Dominance and the desire to suppress enemy aggression are rarely seen among females. A mother cat, if her babies are in danger, will fight to the bitter end. She will give her life for the kittens without retreating even before the most terrible and large adversary. But cats are often in the struggle for the location of a young cat can fight violently, figuring out who is stronger. The pose, when they stand motionless nose to nose, expresses extreme concentration. The slightest movement of the enemy or a sharp extraneous sound can become an impetus to a brave battle. But one of the cats is losing sooner or later. He lies on his stomach, firmly pressing his body and head to the ground, and extends his paws with claws towards the enemy. His posture expresses both humility and threat. The winner in this case leaves the first, demonstrating his dignity and superiority. Friendly relations between adult males are almost impossible.
The psychology of the behavior of cats in relation to humans at home is somewhat different. They rarely express extreme aggression towards the host. But a stranger can be scratched or bitten if, after warning signs, he has not retreated. More often, aggression is provoked by fear, stress or confusion. Full confidence in the owner and others is manifested in a pose on the side or back when the stomach is open. The cat's eyes are usually covered, she relaxed, dozing and not at all averse to be caressed.
A conversation with a cat: sounds and facial expressions
Despite the fact that cats prefer to communicate with gestures, the most talkative of them constantly purr. Feline language has more than 16 signals of various ranges, including ultrasound that is beyond the reach of the human ear. Such inaudible sounds more often than mothers communicate with kittens. The usual "meow" may differ in timbre, tonality. Having learned to speak feline, a person will be able to convey the necessary information to the pet with such sounds. For example, hissing softly at a cat when she does something forbidden, you can let her know that this should not be done. The psychology of cats is designed so that not all of them are too talkative. Some animals have made just a few quiet sounds in their entire lives. Others, on the contrary, constantly shout, murmur, growl, hiss and grumble. Here's what some feline words can say about the mood of a furry friend:
- Hissing is a warning signal.
- Snort - surprise, desire to distract the enemy, confusion.
- Low-range rumbling - ready for protection.
- Grunts are a threat and a warning.
- Teeth clacking, smacking and bleating - a desire to catch prey or disappointment if this was not possible.
- Purring - the cat is pleased with life.
- The cooing short “meow” is the joy of meeting, the greeting.
- Vibrating with a hoarse "meow" - a friendly attitude, gratitude.
Each lingering “mi-auu”, “mia-u” in most cases expresses requests, a call for help, a complaint or a cry. The degree of talkativeness of a cat depends not only on its individual character, but also on the breed. The psychology of Thai cats, as well as their Siamese and Oriental brethren, is different in that they are very talkative and sociable. The British and European Shorthair cats, on the contrary, are silent.
Facial expressions in all cats are very expressive due to the high degree of mobility of the muscles of the muzzle and head. Cat's eyes are a mirror reflecting the pet’s mood and state of mind. Half closed eyelids, slow blinking mean calm, peace, relaxation. Eyes wide open - interest, concern. The dilated pupils show fear. A narrow glance at point blank expresses a warning and a challenge. Dramatically constricted pupils indicate extreme concentration. If the cat looks away, she is ready to obey. A direct look into the eyes of the owner and ears stretched forward express interest, a request, a desire to communicate or eat. Ears drooping to the sides indicate aggression, and those pulled back and lowered indicate that the cat is scared. If the tips of the ears tremble nervously, then this is a sign of uncertainty.
Education and training, punishment and encouragement, play and toys
If a woman or man loves cats whose psychology is so unpredictable, then of course they will want to play with them. Cats are hunters by nature and know how to have fun without a human being. The rustling pieces of paper, balls, shoelaces, curtains and other items of furniture and interior decoration are the best toys for them. Running, jumping, trying to catch its own tail, the kitten develops the body and skeleton, strengthens the muscles. When playing with a cat, one should remember that she is used to dominating. And too aggressive, in her opinion, attacks on the part of the owner can forever discourage the cat’s interest in playing with him. A bow on a string or a string in her understanding is prey. And the victim cannot behave fearlessly, attack or repulse. Do not let the cat play with arms and legs. The habit of scratching and biting can easily be fixed, which is extremely unpleasant and poses a danger to young children.
Raising a cat, it is necessary to remember that it will not be possible to train and achieve her full obedience. She does not give a damn about the prohibitions, she does not respond to physical punishment, continuing to do what she likes. It is important to teach the animal how to cope with the need for a special tray, absorb food and sleep in strictly designated places. Here, all actions should be aimed at developing conditioned reflexes. For example, if the cat got into the habit of walking past the tray or to another corner, then he should be purposefully led day after day to the place, waiting for him to do his job. We must not forget about the promotion, the cat needs to be caressed, stroked and praised. In a few days, and in the extreme case of weeks, the cat will get used to it.
Territory and social aspects of behavior
The psychology of cats is designed so that the territory is very important for them, because they are asocial animals. They mark their favorite places, thus protecting their personal space from uninvited enemies. Despite this, in nature, cats can live in groups or colonies, gathering according to their interests. For example, feed together, sunbathe in the sun. As a rule, there is no friendly communication between them. Each individual retains individuality, trying to retire to sleep in a secluded place, choosing separate paths for walking and places for reflection, favorite trees for sharpening claws.
Hunting and food
Although cats are simply amazing hunters, they do not need to hunt at home. As they do not need to protect their housing. The prey and protector is the owner, to which the cat treats more like a parent. This is manifested in the way she shifts from foot to foot, gently rubs against her legs, showing her location. This is exactly how a kitten communicates with its mother. Hunting for a domestic cat is entertainment, instinctive desire. She can catch a mouse, a fly, or a bird. Quite rarely, a cat decides to attack a huge rat with sharp teeth that can hurt her. The domestic cat brings its prey to the house. This is a gift for the owner, an expression of true friendship and care.
Mother cat and offspring
Cats are very caring and devoted mothers. They constantly lick kittens, stimulating the circulation of blood and breathing babies. Animals raise their offspring in the process of the game, soundless communication. If there is a danger of danger, then the cat can drag the children to another place. But the connection between mother and child does not last long. As soon as the kitten grows up, the cat loses interest in him, perceiving him as a young male or female.
Regardless of which pet you decide to settle side by side with you, remember that the psychology of cats, dogs and other animals has a different structure. And, before bringing a new tenant into the house, it would be nice to study the main features of the behavior of the future pet, so that in the future his pranks, game or aggressive behavior do not become an unpleasant surprise. Once in a new home, the kitten feels defenseless, insecure. He needs someone who will help him get comfortable in a new place, protect him from dangers and become a real senior comrade. And cats never forget kindness, affectionate attitude, as well as pain, fear. And all these feelings are usually associated with a person. Take care of the cat, caress it, do not hold it by force, do not punish too severely, and it will become your faithful friend for many years to come.