Permissiveness is the behavior of a person who goes beyond the framework of established social and political norms and disregards the rights of other people and feels his impunity. These are actions that are beneficial exclusively to the person who commits them, the consequences of which are the deliberate or thoughtless infliction of resentment and damage to others.
Is freedom permissiveness?
Sometimes freedom is understood as permissiveness. In fact, these concepts, similar in sound, carry completely different semantic load.
Freedom is a necessary element of a full-fledged life, is an integral component of the happiness of every person and an unshakable foundation of any state, the management of which is based on the principles of democracy. Freedom of religion, speech, love, conscience, movement - these are the criteria that underlie the full realization of the individual in society. The freedom for which they fight and which they conquer begins with small personal victories of a person and ends with upholding the independence of entire states.
The concept of freedom is closely combined with the responsibility (to oneself and society) that each person assigns to himself in the process of performing certain actions, understanding the commensurability of the implementation of the plan within the existing restrictions. Life in society leads to a clash of freedoms of different people, which requires the right, without harm to others, adaptation. It is important to understand that there can be no absolute freedom, since a person constantly depends on some circumstances (law, rights and freedoms of other people, social values, mutual respect).
Examples of permissiveness
Freedom ends at the moment when the actions taken affect the interests of other people in a negative aspect. That is, the individual hears only himself, does not reckon with the freedom of other citizens and acts solely for the benefit of his interests.
It was at that moment that his freedom grew into permissiveness, which is terrible in that it leads to anarchy. Everyone should clearly understand and understand the danger of permissiveness. A vivid example of this is the French Revolution, when the natural idea of rights was perceived by man in the wrong context, which ultimately led to a complete dictatorship.
Permissiveness is an exclusively negative category that brings destruction, pain and death, found its expression in the minds of certain political figures and led to terrible events in the world as a whole. The twentieth century was remembered by the monstrous ideas of Hitler and Stalin, which claimed the lives of many millions of people.
Permissiveness is laid in childhood?
Often permissiveness (synonyms - "permissiveness", "lawlessness", "lawlessness", "all homage") is laid in a person from childhood, when a child, knowing no refusal, gets what he wants easily and in full. It is this ease of fulfillment of desires that determines their mindless growth as they grow older.
Often in school and family practice, where free education is proclaimed, permissiveness also takes place, as the principle of the child’s self-expression and non-interference in the natural process of adapting him to society. Permissiveness permitted as a one-time experiment is a teacher’s tactical move in the process of education and training; but most often teachers and parents follow the children’s lead, allowing them liberties that harm the children themselves, creating their conflict with the outside world and developing a special kind of egoism in them - despotism.
The child quickly understands how to achieve what he wants, the instrument of which are screaming, tears, hysteria.
Prevent permissiveness
At the root of permissiveness is an unreasonable fear of the entire world around us and of ourselves, which forces a person not only to defend himself, but also to attack.
A strong and self-confident person will never impede another person’s freedom. The most dangerous permissiveness is a moral, undermining personality from within and not so clearly manifested. The Christian nature and the 10 commandments that underlie any law and law characterize human life as well as possible:
Not allowed to show permissiveness are capable of:
- conscience;
- morality instilled in the family from birth;
- traditions transmitted from century to century by generations;
- spiritual values of parents, who set their lives and actions as an example to the younger generation .