Among all existing life positions that have been created over many centuries, the formation of family values is considered the most important in human life. In a family, a child is born, learns to live with dignity, respect people. Without basic family training, it will be very difficult for a person to be in society. The next stage is the formation of family values in the school. The child, being at a young age, perceives all information as instructive, most often listens to it. Therefore, the measures taken to form family values within the walls of the school are fascinating.
Education should not only be in the family, school, but also in the environment. A teenager most often belongs to himself. Much depends on the society in which he spends all his free time. Most often, it is public opinion that affects the perception of family values in adolescents. It is the companies that make it possible to come to some opinion collectively. It is important that this opinion or just reasoning is correct. If everything happens the other way around, a child or teenager is trying to instill deliberately false information, and a specialist will work with him later on. It is better for parents to devote some time to their children and try to explain what family values are and why they are needed.
Family conversations
First of all, parents and all adults present in the family should determine family values. Unity of opinion helps explain what is needed to the child. The formation of family values occurs due to beliefs, a certain way of life, and attitude to people around people outside the family.
Parents should be interested in teachers, how the formation of family values in the school. The family is the main unit that gives the child a base of knowledge, understanding and perception of the outside world. But events on the formation of family values, carried out in the school building, allow you to consolidate the information that comes to the child at home. If a family has family values and the child knows about them from an early age, then in adolescence there will be no problems with it. For many years, teachers, psychologists and scientists dealing with issues of family values in families have spoken about this.
School and society
The formation of family values in the school begins with the elementary grades. Teachers are sure that from the first day the child is in society, the formation of family values and social values should occur. But since the basis in the formation is precisely family values, educators start from what the child is already accustomed to. If a child was brought up in an oppressed atmosphere, egocentrism, he was taught to neglect public opinion, he will feel like an outcast in society.
School teachers at the sight of a child with such values should give him special attention. A visit to a psychologist will help solve problems with the perception of values, both family and social. The main thing is to start paying attention to the child and correctly convey the necessary information to him. Timely help will direct the child on the right path. He will not understand this right away, but over time he will appreciate the work of his teachers.
School activities
Family values activities are held in almost every school. The teaching staff is trying to unite parents and children into a single whole. Every year, according to the programs, they hold events "Mother's Day", "Sports Family", an exhibition of family wall newspapers. In order for the formation of family values to unite everyone, children are asked to draw a family tree or family tree of the family name.
In the process of such activities, the family becomes united, parents help children and vice versa. Respect for each other, care form the basic part of the family code of the family. The family plays an important role not only in raising children, but also in the life of the country. Parents, thanks to family values, can make their child a successful, fast-moving person who respects society.
Children's educational institutions in the life of a child
The pedagogical staff of the preschool educational institution can take decades to form until all specialists are professionals. In this case, it is not even a matter of work experience, but in relation to it, vocation. Psychologists working with children should have a certain qualification, be able to find a common language even with the most difficult teenager. The formation of family values in preschool education is necessary so that children from different families understand that no matter what their parents are, they cannot be changed, the child's attitude towards them should always be good, respectful. The ideal option is when the family adheres to spiritual and moral traditions, there is pedagogical and social support.
The formation of family values in preschool education is necessary so that children look at other families and relationships in them. It often happens that children from dysfunctional families change their attitude towards parents due to school activities aimed at family cohesion.
Reasoning About Family Values
It is better to start a discussion about family values in a narrow circle and at home. All family members should not be annoyed by this topic, otherwise the conversation will not bring results. If parents pay attention to this issue, then the child will easily find a common language with different people.
Quite often, children are given the task of writing an essay on the topic “Family Values”. And there are frequent cases when children do not know what it is and what they need to write about. The ideal option is when the child is able to compare the family values of his family with the values described in the works of literature. Such compositions are written only by those children whose parents pay attention to them and their education.
All planned works are entered in the list of final exams. Reasoning about family values is available to mature teens. Young children do not yet have a knowledge base of domestic and world literature. They cannot compare family values with the plots described in the books.
Do teens have family values
The formation of family values in adolescents should begin at an early age. The child, without realizing it, begins to accept the values that parents, kindergarten, and school bring to his mind.
The formation of family values in adolescents is a long process, as a result of which a certain attitude to family norms, roles, and an idea of different opinions should develop.
In schools, teachers pay special attention to children from large families. You need to work with them constantly, as all parents have enough time to talk and discuss about family values. Teachers in such cases should come to the aid of large families.
Most often, teens ignore family values. In order to fix this and not to miss the moment, teachers introduce various schemes into the learning process. A lesson in the usual form becomes fascinating thanks to the teacher’s behavior model.
The main task of the teacher is to adhere to the goals and objectives to obtain a result. Practical exercises in a playful way allow teens to forget about their own ambitions and get involved in the process of determining family values. Such conversations are heartily welcomed in every school, but not all teenagers make contact. Such conversations should be conducted by a psychologist with extensive experience. Conversations on similar topics in adolescents cause laughter, they believe that this is not the most important thing in life, and only a few are convinced of the opposite.
Family values of modern society
For the whole society, family authority is a priority. Strong and trusting relationships are the basis for the formation of a person’s personality. Modern family values can be very different, each family forms them from their own priorities, beliefs. It is youth who determines the future of their country.
At school events, they discuss modern family values, listen to life positions. In other words, they are preparing young people for adulthood. And rightly so, it should be so in all children's educational institutions.
Modern society is in a hurry in everything. Teenagers want to grow up faster, go to work, begin to achieve their goals. But in life it does not always work out as originally intended. Why is living according to plan very difficult? Because this requires strict discipline. Following their own life positions, young people forget about another opinion, thereby ceasing to respect others. Neglecting the actions and opinion of the surrounding society leads to the fact that the opinion of a person becomes empty. Nobody pays attention to him, they do not listen to him. And this is very scary. Young people, without family values, will feel extremely awkward in society.
Child's perception of family values
A child is a blank sheet. He is initially ready to accept all the information that is presented to him. This information is not always useful or correct. Therefore, schools periodically conduct class hours "Family, family values." It is at the class hour that the teaching staff has the opportunity to raise those topics that are important for the class team. The presence of parents and children at that event is very important. Even the most spoiled child, having heard that he is scolded by his parents, and they do not protect, but shake their heads, feels a sense of discomfort. He is embarrassed by the fact that his classmates and their parents are in the classroom. Society, disapproving of the behavior of the child and showing it clearly to him, encourages him to think about whether to make mistakes the next time.
The upbringing of family values in the minds of a child occurs during a conversation in a narrow family circle. After receiving comments at school, parents will certainly begin to raise this topic at home. It is important that the conversation does not take place in elevated tones. The child may close, start to cry, there will be no result from such a conversation.
Single family
Family and family values should be associated in a child with warmth, comfort, understanding, respect, love. Mental and moral calm often lead teenagers to thought. Moreover, they argue not with themselves, but with their peers. Talking in an environment about what values of family relationships have comrades, once again give reason to think about their own relationships with parents.
Adolescence is very complex. Youthful maximalism, the absence of fear of someone or something, lead parents into a panic state. You can’t fall into tantrums, so the situation and the attitude of the child to himself can not be changed. Work on yourself, your mistakes will allow the child to see that he is not indifferent to his own parents. To say that you understand does not mean to understand. It is very important that the child knows how to give in the family to adults. And it’s not even about age, but the human attitude and the understanding that he still does not have enough experience to argue with his parents.
A single family can only be when adults and children can listen to each other and listen. When communicating with a child, parents need to exclude the denial method. There are many other ways to make it clear to a person whether to do so in the future or not. Applied domestic violence leads to aggression and neglect of adults. In such families, children grow up on their own, perhaps parents will never start a conversation with them about family values. Such a family is unlikely to be united.
The attitude of parents to children
Initially, you need to talk about how parents relate to each other. In families with a calm environment and balanced parents, children most often grow up, who have everything in order with the psyche, they understand that the family is the most important thing in life.
The formation of family values in children from large or problem families practically does not occur. In such situations, you need to worry about the formation of personality. But as you know, one cannot exist without the other. In such situations, qualified specialists, psychologists, and teachers come to the rescue. Most often, children from dysfunctional families try to spend a lot of time at school. There they are interested, they have the opportunity to communicate with children of different ages.
It is in school that you can understand a lot if you listen to the advice of teachers. Ongoing activities aimed at finding out whether their families have values, lead to the fact that children find these values and try to convey them to their parents.
In the practice of psychologists and teachers there are many different situations that can be attributed to non-standard. All children and their parents are different, only some understand the importance of family values, while others do not.
Total
Summing up, we can say that children's educational institutions in the lives of children and adolescents play an important role. In the process of personality formation, family and social values, the child should not feel embarrassed. And if parents do not have the opportunity or desire to independently convey information to the child, professionals will do it for them.
The main goal of teachers is not only to teach family and social values, but also to provide an opportunity to compare these concepts. Some people may ask, "Why would a child write an essay on the subject of Family Values?" This is necessary so that the teaching staff understands with which child the parents talk at home and have family values formed, and with whom it is necessary to work within the walls of the school. From this institution, no child should go into adulthood unprepared.
At school, they pay great attention to these issues. Conversations with parents and children take place during class hours. The teacher, communicating with children and parents, looks at the reaction of two parties. Much depends on how parents react to praise or abuse. Even the most ordinary math teacher is a very good psychologist. He can see and understand with the naked eye what kind of relationship is in this or that family. Based on the existing relationship, he will understand whether to work additionally with this child or not. All schools are interested in that their students at the time of graduation were ready for adulthood, and without an understanding of family and social values, this is impossible.