Faced with rudeness, you always want to answer the offender. In a fit of anger, we often do not control our feelings and emotions. This can cause a number of negative consequences. The simplest outcome is a quarrel, and the most negative is a fight. But, you must admit, suffering yourself and humiliating yourself to assault only because your interlocutor is in a bad mood is at least stupid.
The most correct in such a situation is to answer the offender calmly and confidently, but in such a way as to put the boor in place. To do this tactfully, without spending extra strength and energy, there are special blanks - daring phrases.
Who is a boor?
This is an aggressor attacking and violating your personal boundaries. He tries to hurt the most sore spots and at the same time avoid revenge. Scientific evidence indicates that such a person is, in fact, a miserable person with low self-esteem, who wants to assert himself at the expense of those offended or ridiculed by him. Here's what you need to know when faced with a boor. To understand and forgive, or even feel sorry for an insignificant person or answer with a witty phrase, smiling good-naturedly (not venomously!).
Examples of situations where anger is not contained
A decent-looking man who is a boor, today you can meet at every step. Often the most common locations for its deployment are as follows:
1. Trading floors. The favorite place of a bored, angry person is, of course, a market or a supermarket. In some cases, a pharmacy is popular. Firstly, you can go there as a tour and indulge in plenty, studying the prices on the shelves. Secondly, poking around in the crowd is also a sweet deal for them. And all this, of course, is accompanied by unpleasant comments to passers-by. By the way, sellers of shops also love to be rude.
2. Public transport. The favorite place of all boors is the crowd. And where else can you enjoy indignation like in a traffic crush at rush hour? There you pushed, here - you. And as a result, for example, we have a woman who is screaming hotly, who spills out her anger at all who are trying to argue with her. And God forbid you to surpass her in this honed mastery.
3. Clinic. The government agency, where you certainly have to stand in line, also knows bold people. It can be a scoundrel who will try to skip out of turn. But then he will get a solid verbal thrashing from people waiting in line, among whom boors can also hide.
4. Places of study. Adolescence is famous for the "painful" growing up of children. How is it shown? Defiant phrases addressed to teachers, wrangling at lessons in school, lyceums. Teenagers cannot give an objective assessment of what is happening. It seems to them that they already know everything, and adults are a little behind them. Unfortunately, rudeness and daring phrases in high school classes are quite commonplace. The teacher can put the student in place, having gained authority in his eyes, or not pay attention to the fact that he will “outgrow” by itself.
Defiant phrases and expressions: examples
- And it is true that it is interesting for all of us to speculate on topics that do not concern us at all.
- From a person who is difficult to cheer, you should not expect good.
- I know that crooks are making progress, but not because of their own mind, as they believe, but because of the gullible people nearby. And to lie, just the mind is not needed. Work honestly - that's the skill.
- I’m terribly embarrassed to tell you this, but I’m not at all interested in how I look in your eyes, excuse me. I look beautiful in mine, and that’s enough.
- What level of development, such and interests.
- You are so low in communication that, frankly, you are not even visible on the horizon.
- Please continue. When you say such things, I feel so smart.
- Sorry, but you hear a bad amber from your mouth.
- Or maybe you can bring a drum?
- With similar tirades only in the corner and stand.
- If you are angry, then you yourself know that you are wrong.
- In this case, your emotions are not identified with the conclusions of your thinking.
- If you don't like me, let me go underground.
Cheeky phrases for girls
If a girl does not want to communicate with a guy, but cannot get rid of his annoyance, or vice versa, she struggles with his rudeness, maybe she should use some phrases.
For instance:
- Your time in my life is over. Pass the pass and exit.
- If you love me, this is your mistake, all you can achieve is my smile.
- Darling, you are right - there have never been people like you, no more and no need.
- What should - I know, it is written in the Constitution. The rest - as I want.
- Things are fine with me, so there is nothing to please you.
- It was not you who starred in the movie "Clowns"?
- I'm not picky, just the best is enough for me.
And what about the guys?
Not only girls suffer from annoying boors. Let's look at cheeky phrases for guys. They can use these statements in response to the rudeness of their peers:
- You are not so beautiful to be rude to me.
- If you say that, then most likely you have a spare jaw in your pocket.
- Kiss me with a run, I'm standing behind a tree.
- Maybe you are the most beautiful girl in our area, but I’m interested in communicating with smart ones as well.
So, the first foundation is laid. Now you know how to respond to rudeness. But in no case do not parry these statements in front of an innocent person. And then in the role of a boor you will find yourself.