Group sex and the Swedish family - how are these two concepts related to each other? As it turned out, these are completely different things. The Swedish family is three people of different sexes living together. Sexual connection between them, as in any normal family, of course, exists, but it is due to the mutual feelings of the whole tandem. Threesome sex does not initially entail any warm feelings between ... between all, in general.
How is it that people enter into this kind of relationship and agree to live together? More often than not, a Swedish family becomes an outlet in those cases when, say, a girl cannot choose between two young people who she really likes. In this case, she has a desire to keep both next to her, perhaps even compare them. What to do?
Here we have to take into account several significant circumstances. The first and most important obstacle is that it is impossible to give equal attention to both beloved men (or women). The situation of competition for a partner (if this partner is really loved), located in the center, is in any case inevitable. The outcome can be anything - up to the point that you still have to choose between your beloved people, or they just leave.
Secondly, the Swedish family is a difficult psychological situation for everyone. Is it possible to sincerely love two at the same time and share a beloved person with someone else? You can argue on this issue ad infinitum. But still keep in mind: the nerves at one point may simply not stand it.
The third. Do you really think that, having decided to live together with the two, you would not want to try something else and compare relations with a large number of people? Albeit relative, but still freedom from "normal", formal relations is very relaxing. Where is the guarantee that the number of participants in the union will not increase over time?
Another reason for creating a triple alliance may be blackmail: “If you do not want to live together, I do not hold you.” Think about whether you need a Swedish family for the sake of a pairing relationship, which is no longer in sight?
On the other hand, Swedish families are not without their advantages. Such a relationship may be convenient for all participants. When this condition is met, they can be quite durable and long.
Agree, maintaining comfort in a family nest is much easier for two women than one. And the man will be surrounded by a double portion of care and tenderness. Otherwise, two breadwinners will be able to better provide their woman. But here, too, there are pitfalls - warm friendships are easily mistaken for love.
By the way, how do the Swedes themselves relate to the concept of “Swedish family”? Interestingly, in this combination they put a completely different meaning. In this country, this is a form of cohabitation of a man and a woman who are not yet officially registered. Our common- law marriage, simply put. At the same time, women can have children from different men, since the attitude to such phenomena in Sweden is completely normal. But young people do not sign for one reason: divorce there is not an expensive thing. And the funds are safe, and nerves.