Always present yourself in the best possible light. Each girl has moments when she can and should brag to her other virtues: “Many people tell me that I have very beautiful eyes” or “I graduated from school with a gold medal.” If you want men to believe that you are really smart and beautiful, you need to show yourself, thereby confirming that you are sure of it.
If the man decided to give you a compliment, thank him by repeating this again to strengthen. For example, a man said that you are beautiful, answer him: "I am very pleased that you find me beautiful." As soon as the positive idea concerning you reaches him, continue to attack him with fresh ideas. Let him know that you are a real diamond!
Try to demonstrate all your best personal qualities, tell yourself as much positive as possible, but never lie or exaggerate your merits. Such statements are not only useless, but in the future they may even play against you.
What can you tell about your own shortcomings?
Do you have any significant or minor physical flaws? If so, then perhaps some of the men with whom you were in a relationship have avoided this topic so as not to offend you. Others, on the contrary, pointed to your “defect”, and you asked them not to do this again. But if your drawback is 10 kilograms of excess weight, a wart on your face or limp, you can’t get away from it, even if you say nothing about it. On the contrary, pretending that there is no such flaw, you only move away from each other.
At the same time, one does not need to rush from one extreme to another and focus on one’s own shortcomings. It will be a very big mistake if, instead of showing your best side, you will focus on a flat chest, big nose,
crooked teeth or bad skin.
I want to show myself in a good light, or how to avoid mistakes
A man is looking for an alliance with a girl with whom he will forget about his problems. He wants to see in his woman a lover and girlfriend who will not bury his head with his shortcomings, fears and fears. So if you overwhelm him with undesirable information about yourself, trying to show yourself and please him, then this will definitely lead to a break in relations.
Some women are used to demonstrating their physical and psychological flaws without hesitation - for example, myopia, allergies, poor health or lethargy, presenting them as virtues. But even if a man loves fragile young ladies (although in most cases this is not so), he will not accept soreness for a good personal quality.
Among other things, a man can use your words in the future against you. If a woman claims to be ignorant, stupid and ugly, then probably her man will believe her, even if it is a lie. Try to show yourself honestly, be sure to demonstrate the positive aspects of character and appearance.
In the event that your relationship has become serious, and the matter is heading for the wedding, you and your partner should discuss aspects of your life together, such as financial obligations, sexual needs and relationships with relatives who will come and visit with you. But do not rush things and wait until your relationship has reached a serious stage before talking on such topics.