It is more important to be really good than just using certain tricks to show yourself like that. But how can a woman present herself to others in an attractive light so that she wants to continue communication? There are a few secrets.
Appearance factor
This is the first thing that males usually pay attention to. Therefore, you should never neglect your appearance. You can not appear in people with a fat head, bags under the eyes, arrows on tights, half-worn varnish on the nails or in stale clothes.
How to introduce yourself at an interview
The key to a successful outcome is the way you behave. Indeed, according to statistics, in 95% of cases, the employer pays attention to how a potential employee behaves, and only in 5% of cases - what he says. The presence of good recommendations from a previous job and a diploma is equally important, but if a girl constantly looks at the floor with excitement or, worse, bites her nails, then they are unlikely to be offered a place.
So, how to show yourself as a good future employee and create the impression of a confident girl? Here are some suggestions.
- To be late is simply unforgivable, so a day or two before the interview you need to find out exactly how to get to the right place, whether there are traffic jams along the route, and how long the road will take. Then add another 20 safety minutes to catch your breath before a responsible meeting.
- Even if in everyday life a girl prefers extravagant outfits, then in this case the wardrobe should be more formal, it is desirable that the colors are pastel, and the perfume is by no means evening.
- Before the interview, you can drink a glass of tea with mint or lemon balm (it will calm the nervous system).
- It is advisable to learn as much as possible about the company itself (foundation history, requirements for employees, products).
- Hands are best placed directly on the table, sit upright, do not cross legs. Gesture should be moderate.
In the work team
How to prove yourself good when you come to a new job?
- One way or another, they are greeted by clothes, so at least the first time you should try not to look too pretentious against the background of colleagues.
- The women's team does not need to try to make bosom friends.
- Participation in gossip will negatively affect your reputation, it is better to communicate on neutral or working topics, and it is safer to keep a negative opinion about someone else.
- In a male team, in no case should you focus on your gender, since the most important thing there is quality work, and not whoever did it, a woman or a man.
- For colleagues of the stronger sex, you don’t need to become "your boyfriend", otherwise you can unconsciously adopt their habits, and this is clearly not a girl's face.
- Girlish tears in the male team are unlikely to touch anyone, so it is useless to use them as a means of manipulation.
How to show yourself to a girl on a first date
- Too frank clothes will not help to create the impression of a modest girl, so you do not need to wear a miniskirt or put on the neckline. But it is better to choose a feminine dress or pencil skirt with a blouse. Heels are also always in price. Makeup is required, but it is better to emphasize either the eyes or the lips, and not all at once. A perfume should be taken not aggressive, but gentle, but so that the train from it can be heard at a distance of a meter.
- Deliberately late is undesirable, except for 10-15 minutes.
- When talking, you need to listen more to the young man, and not talk yourself. Along the way, be sure to ask leading questions, this will cheer up the guy and show that his story is interesting.
- Forbidden topics: relations with an ex-husband or young man, your own shortcomings and fears, complaints about a bad life or negative statements about anyone. Men do not like aching women.
- A sincere smile is always appropriate, as is good humor. This will defuse the situation.
When meeting a guy’s parents
How to show yourself as a good future wife for their son?
- If the father and mother of the young man come home to the girl, then a thorough cleaning is absolutely necessary. Every mother is inclined to scan all corners in search of dirt when meeting with a potential daughter-in-law.
- On a subconscious level, the smell of fresh pastries sets in a positive mood and represents the girl as a good future hostess, so it’s better to bake a tea cake with your own hands, rather than buying in a store.
- For the parents of a young man, the girl should prepare a modest gift, but before that, be sure to ask his advice.
- First you need to ask the guy about his mom and dad, what they do, get carried away, which ones are better to avoid, and what they will talk about willingly, etc.
- In no case do not have to be silent all evening, as at a match, but to speak, without ceasing, is also useless.
- Kisses or hugs with a guy at the first meeting with his parents are simply unacceptable.
And one general advice on how to show yourself as a good girl anywhere: do not hold back in the manifestation of their positive qualities. Being real is the secret to success.