American boys have recently attracted a fairly large number of domestic girls. Compared to many Russian men, they stand out by their stable income, self-confidence, and opportunities to realize themselves and see the world around them. What are their main differences that appear with a closer acquaintance?
Acquaintance
Many Russian girls, once in the USA, dream of meeting American guys as soon as possible. There are many explanations for this. It is always interesting to try something unknown, to be imbued with a different culture and worldview. Indeed, in the majority's view, classic American guys are tanned handsome men who play muscle on azure beaches.
On closer communication, it turns out that something was really true, and something was nothing more than a myth, a fiction that sank a stereotype.
Having examined the photos of American guys, many Russian girls will want to spend at least one romantic evening with them. Here it should be noted right away that for a person who has just moved to another country or city, the appearance of an American boyfriend is a big plus.
Circle of friends
The thing is that you and him will not visit the tourist places of New York or any other metropolis as a tourist. Most likely, you will go to some fashionable new bar, besides, soon the American guys begin to acquaint their friends with their close circle, with their circle of friends, due to which you will immediately make new friends and acquaintances. At the same time, Americans are as friendly as possible, especially with people who are not at ease, like most girls from Russia who come to the United States. So you will definitely hear a compliment about your excellent English, no matter how terrible your pronunciation may be.
Due to the fact that you will have a constant circle of communication in English, you will plunge into the environment, improving your knowledge of the language in reality.
In addition, be prepared to be constantly asked about Russia. Your self-esteem will rise, because you will feel like a real expert, talking about things that are familiar to every Russian, without exception.
Character Features
From the photo of American men, one can make the assumption that they are incredibly helpful and gallant. Most importantly, this actually turns out to be so.
Some Russian girls admit that they begin to feel themselves in the 19th century, having noticed such an appeal to themselves. Helpful Americans are always ready to fulfill any whim and wish of their girlfriend: go to a restaurant, order sushi, Chinese dishes, go to relax in the club. They are trying to please everything, trying to be as open and generous as possible.
In addition, do not be afraid to choose what you really want, they will in fact enjoy the satisfaction of your desires, and also do not hesitate to speak out if you do not like something. One of the main points that distinguish American boys from Russians is that the girl does not have to blindly follow her young man. She always has the right to choose, she can use it, they will listen to her opinion.
At the same time, it is worth recognizing that some Russians do not like this behavior, which begins to seem like the point here is the reluctance of an American man to take responsibility and make decisions. Accustomed to other relationships, they refuse to decide everything themselves. As a result, such couples often break up, because the girl is used to her boyfriend telling her how to dress and where they will go tonight. Unlike the Americans, the Russian man is used to dominating, demonstrating to everyone around that this is his woman. And anyone who puts an eye on her can seriously pay. In the United States, conflicts are most often resolved in a more civilized way. That's how American guys are different from Russians.
Be prepared to talk a lot
Another fundamentally different point will be that Americans, unlike many Russian guys, like to talk a lot on a variety of topics. The girl should be prepared that she will find numerous stories about his college years, jokes and jokes, memories of the time spent with friends. As a result of many, it even starts to annoy when any opportunity to stay in complete silence disappears.
What is the difference between American guys and Russians? They will never hide emotions in themselves, be sure to share what really infuriates or annoys them. As a result, the ideal becomes the combination of a talkative Russian with a silent American.
Feminism
Feminism, which has been reigning in American society for several decades, is positive today, perhaps many even like it to appear. After all, this means complete equality between women and men: for a girl it’s not customary to pay in a restaurant or buy her a movie ticket, everyone pays for himself, no one at the same time feels remorse.
This is the difference between American men and Russians in principle. At such moments, many begin to remember with tenderness and nostalgia their relationship in Russia, when the girl has no worries, and not paying the total bill in a restaurant is considered below her own dignity.
So girls need to remember that if the principle of paying all bills in equal parts scares you, you need to avoid it. If you still come across a guy who will pay for you on your first few dates, then this is most likely a strategy to win a female heart.
If you like a girl ...
Interestingly, Russians and Americans have a completely different approach to the so-called female heart hunt. Our guys are usually guided by the principle that you should never give up. They do so until a woman agrees to at least one date.
For example, if they want to satisfy their male pride, then intrusive courtship can continue for several months. After all, Russians know very well that Russian girls “no” often means “yes”.
But the Americans in such situations are retreating quickly enough. In megacities, there are so many attractive girls that it is easier and more productive for them to switch to another object. In courtship, Americans often build themselves as princes, which in reality are not. An important point for them is to create a good impression of themselves. In this respect, Russians are more honest, open, and straightforward.
Marriage proposal
Even if a passionate romance broke out with an American man, you should not wait for a quick offer of a hand and heart. Here it is customary to get married as late as possible. The norm is to go to the registry office, at least after 30 years. At the same time, Russians come together to live in a place and get to know each other's parents much earlier than Americans.
It is worth noting that there is a positive side to this, since no one expects the girl to housekeeping. Of course, if a woman wants to make a romantic dinner or Sunday breakfast, no one will be against it. But this is not considered a mandatory quality that is necessary for a girl who dreams of getting married. Therefore, in America, no one demands from his wife clean socks, ironed shirts. Firstly, men themselves are ready to take on part of the responsibilities of housekeeping. Secondly, it is considered in the order of things to assign them to specially trained people. This is a developed network of laundries, cleaning companies engaged in cleaning the house, food delivery companies.
Men value much more in a relationship, so that the girl does not perform the functions of the maintenance staff, but is a true friend and life partner, with whom you can always talk about something, and not follow how carefully she washes the dishes.
In conclusion, it must be emphasized that you can find your beloved among representatives of any nationality. Each conclusion, especially if it is made in relation to representatives of a certain nation, has exceptions, which these rules are only ready to confirm.
Mentality features
In conclusion, we dwell on several features of the mentality of the inhabitants of the United States, which you need to know about if you are going to live in America. Be prepared for the fact that if you are praised, it means absolutely nothing. Americans love to give compliments to the right and left, but it often happens that this is a tribute to etiquette, and does not reflect what they really think about you.
Another point may surprise even more. If they don’t start arguing with you, it doesn’t mean at all that they agree with you. The fact is that culture in the United States is based on respect for the opinions of others and tolerance. From the first years of life, local children are taught to adequately treat the fact that all people around are different.
From scratch
The important point is that your past will not matter to anyone. In the States, it is not customary to judge anyone for mistakes made in the past.
As a result, some even begin to abuse it. For example, as KGB officers who made a fortune from stories about their work in the USSR.