Language in our lives occupies an incomparable, special place. In fact, it is he who determines the model of our worldview. Thanks to him, certain concepts are fixed in the mind that pop up every now and then at the mention of a particular reality.
However, sooner or later we find ourselves in a situation of incomplete understanding. It would seem that quite ordinary, often used by us words suddenly cause confusion and doubt. Their meaning suddenly eludes, it seems incomplete and indirect.
Take, for example, the word "charm." What does it mean to us? By what criteria do we consider a person before using this concept in relation to him? Let's talk about this in more detail.
Traditional understanding
Most often, this word is associated with the fair sex. In the understanding of modern man, the adjective “charming” is a kind of synonym for the words “sweet”, “beautiful”, “attractive”, but in reality it often turns out that the girl does not have any obvious external advantages, but in a different way I can’t say it.
In the footsteps of Soviet cinema
We all remember the heroine of Irina Muravyova in the film “The Most Charming and Attractive”. After all, there was nothing in her that could be compared with standard beauty, however, radiant eyes, a kind smile and a very special character simply fell in love with the audience in a simple girl who went in search of happiness.
Maybe charming is charismatic? A sort of inner beauty, the ability to have oneself, arouse trust and find a common language with everyone and everyone?
I look after her, there is nothing in her ...
So, by means of exclusion, we conclude that charming is far from always beautiful. Rather, in this case, a comparison with charm is applicable, but if you look at the composition of this word, one cannot help but notice an explicit reference to something witchcraft, magical and mysterious. Maybe this is the very criterion of charm? A kind of magical power lurking inside and hiding under the mask of naturalness?
Typical representatives
If you conduct something like a comparative analysis, you can see that the girl is charming - it is almost always an open, kind and soft girl. It never causes discomfort or tension; it seems to complement the world with its presence, making it especially beautiful.
Such women are always interesting, because they embody a riddle that is unlikely to be completely solved.
It seems that if a girl is charming and sweet, she is simply not capable of dirty tricks, envy and other negative things, which, unfortunately, the world today abounds. Such people want to trust almost immediately at a meeting, and over time this desire only grows stronger and gains strength.
Children's immediacy
Moreover, if you face the truth, you cannot deny the fact that charming girls tend to be somewhat childish. Of course, they don’t necessarily play football or pull each other for pigtails. Rather, they are inherent in a light, barely perceptible tinge of infantilism, giving that very charm that can hardly be resisted.
Their charming smile disarms almost immediately, captivating most often with cute dimples on the cheeks and lively facial expressions in general. And sometimes it’s enough just a voiced voice and a flood of laughter in order to forever settle down with a particular person.
Of course, the word “charming” for each has its own subtext and is perceived by everyone quite subjectively. Different people understand it a little differently, but the general concept is quite simple and obvious to everyone. Such a person cannot be confused with anyone in the crowd, however, as it is impossible to find the second one. Who knows, maybe the secret of charm in uniqueness? Or maybe in a particular zodiac sign?
In fact, not a single psychological, sociological or any other study will give a complete answer to this question. Our life is full of mysteries that can never be solved, which is certainly for the best. Just one of such miracles can be called the very incomprehensible, ephemeral, but at the same time so obvious female charm ...