“Beats - means loves” - very often we hear these words from the lips of women who have been subjected to domestic violence. Many with such phrases try to justify their husbands, partners. But the essence remains unchanged - a tyrant man lives with you, who will sooner or later show his true face. Children, women, the elderly are all potential victims of domestic violence. They are weaker physically, and therefore can not give a proper rebuff. It is customary to distinguish between several types of domestic violence. Physical, psychological, sexual, emotional and economic. Let's look at each of them in detail.
Domestic violence: psychological
This type of violence includes all kinds of insults, intimidation, and threats. A person is forced to commit unwanted actions. This is the most common form of domestic violence; it is not easy to detect. It goes hand in hand with other manifestations of tyranny. This type of family relationship can be seen when parents treat their children. It often happens that adults often show indifference towards the child, humiliate him, thereby reducing his self-esteem. Uncertain people with a large number of complexes often grow out of these children.
Domestic Violence: Emotional
This type of violence is often criticized by one of the partners. An example of this can be the husband’s remarks about his wife’s appearance and her humiliation in public. Often a man controls all the money in the family, thereby preventing the spouse from buying something without his permission. Every time a woman is convinced that she is nobody, capable of anything. When the wife’s self-esteem is brought down to the lower bar, fists are often used.
Domestic Violence: Economic
Such violence is manifested in the fact that a man does not allow a woman to work, he completely controls the family budget, not allowing his wife to make purchases. Thus, he drives her into complete economic dependence on himself. Fertile soil appears for blackmail, bullying and assault.
Domestic Violence: Physical
This type of violence speaks for itself. Beating, slapping, offensive spanking - all this suggests that it is time to make cardinal decisions and cross out a tyrant man from his life. Sometimes a woman forgives such tricks, but remember, if a man raised his hand at least once, then most likely this will happen again.
Domestic Violence: Sexual
Often follows the physical. A man beating a woman makes her have sex against her will.
What to do?Abused women often ask themselves, “What if a husband beats?” The answer is simple: leave. But the problem is not solved so simply. Many are afraid of a change in the situation in terms of economic instability, lack of housing. Others are stopped by children. But putting your life and the lives of your children on the scales against stability with a tyrant husband is simply pointless. In any case, the decision is yours. If once again you were beaten, then go to the hospital and record the beatings. In the absence of a husband, it is worth collecting all the necessary things, documents, money and depositing it with relatives or friends. Do not talk or threaten your husband with your departure. He may begin to discourage you from doing so. Try to pick up as many items as possible. This is necessary to exclude the possibility of returning to the house. Otherwise, you risk being beaten again. And remember, do not believe his oaths to mend. After all, the one who dared to hit you once, most likely, will do it again.