It is known that each nation has its own characteristics. For some of them, one can easily guess which country a person is from by origin. The French, they say, are not like anyone and always stand out from the crowd. And what is so special about French men? What are they like? Can they be recognized from afar? We learn from the following material ...
Let's start with a reservation
I would like to make a reservation right away before starting the story: do not think that everything presented in this material will apply to all French men, without exception. You can never row all under one comb, and from each rule there are always exceptions. The French, like Russians, Germans, British, Greeks and other nationalities, have their own mentality, which has common features, as a rule, observed in most representatives of this nation. However, there are, of course, those individuals who do not fall within the description below.
About some character traits
What are the characteristics of the French men? It is believed that France is the most romantic country, and its inhabitants, respectively, are full of this very romance almost to the ears. However, in reality this is not entirely true. Unpredictable actions, violently expressed emotions and recognition of feelings - all this cannot be found in a standard average French man. He can surprise his chosen one only if he is really in love and has serious intentions (we will talk about these intentions separately). On the whole, the French rely more on the voice of reason than hearts, and they are characterized by a rational model of behavior.
The French easily relate to almost all events in their lives, often laugh at themselves and generally perceive what is happening with irony and laughter. This is quite positive, and most importantly, people who do not inflate an elephant from a fly. Any seemingly insoluble problem, but in fact a trifle, French men (photos of representatives of this nationality, see in the review) are able to translate as a joke. However, one must understand: if the issue is really serious and requires a quick solution and the right actions, you can always rely on the Frenchman.
Another character trait of the French arises from the previous one - this is positivity and cheerfulness. They, like children, know how to enjoy absolutely everything, to be surprised at seemingly simple, ordinary things and to see something special in them. They love life with all its manifestations and are happy with each new day, being able to find positive features in everything. Such a trait contrasts sharply with the Russian character and the Russian people - always gloomy, angry and somewhat very dissatisfied, preoccupied.
Main feature
The main thing that distinguishes French men from other people is their incredibly huge vanity. He is terribly concerned with how he looks in the eyes of others - both externally and internally. It is extremely important for the Frenchman to make a lasting impression on others - only in a good, of course, sense. He must be the best always and in everything! - this is his motto, life credo. And the Frenchman will demand the same ideality, impeccability and impeccability from his own family - after all, they should correspond to him in everything and even at the family table to conduct small talk, and not to remember the ridiculous cases with which one of the family members happened. So, summing up the speech about this character trait, we can safely say: the ego of the French men (photos of some representatives are presented in the article) is bloated as it should.
About some cons
But what the French lack is the generosity, which, on the contrary, is so inherent in the Russians. This is due to the exorbitant ego, which we talked about above. The Frenchman will not miss, he will fight to the last. This is especially true of money, inheritance, division of property - in general, any financial issues. Aki lion, a French man will rush to breasts at those who dare to encroach on what should belong only to him alone.
The Frenchman is greedy. Cat Matroskin and Uncle Scrooge McDuck in one bottle - something like this can be described by this prudent, frugal man. The Frenchman saves literally on everything that is possible (but not on how to look from the needle; however, we will return to this later). In France there are often situations when a man pays only for himself when going to a restaurant, while a lady pays for her order on her own. And yet, if a man invited a woman to dinner and it’s just not possible to pay for it together, he can take her to one of the most famous cafes, where celebrities and tourists go. This feint is especially good if the girl is younger and lower is on the social ladder.
While the young fool, having opened a pretty mouth, will stare around and be delighted, the French man will quickly buy one salad for two (the girl doesn’t eat much, and how romantic it is to eat together from one plate!) And bring a plate of free bread - he always issued free of charge in such establishments. So he fed and brought to light, and saved! The generosity of the French is not in the blood and not held in high esteem, although sometimes, of course, they are capable of broad gestures. Perhaps the notorious emancipation also played a role here - since a woman is on a par with a man, let him be on a par with the financial plan.
The French practically do not say anything for sure. In their speech, one can often find the subjunctive mood using the particle “would”: if, perhaps, it would be good, and so on. And they are very independent and do not tolerate when they impose their desires.
A bit about chivalry
Who among us was not fond of the books of Alexander Dumas about musketeers, who did not live life with these brave sword owners! No wonder that thanks to the musketeering about the French, there was a certain stereotypical opinion as about knights who above all honor honor and a lady. We will not hide, there is still something from knights in modern French men - for example, upbringing, politeness and gallant behavior in relation to a woman. Open the car door or hold the door of the store, give a hand, bring a coat - these things are everyday and ordinary for French men and do not cause problems for them - as for the inhabitants of our country. But you do not need to take it into your own account if an unfamiliar man in France gives you a hand when exiting, for example, from public transport. He did not fall in love and does not try to show you signs of attention in this way, he is simply well-educated and follows the rules of etiquette in relation to all women.
Family life
So we returned to the conversation about serious intentions. Those of the French bachelors happen quite late - when they walk enough and realize that they are ripe for nesting. Often this happens already in adulthood, so late marriages are common in France. Moreover, such a feature of the character of a Frenchman-man, as the ability to firmly stand his ground, often leads to awkward situations. If, for example, a Frenchman decided to marry at 35, he marries at that age, and even if he met a perfect girl at age 20, it is unlikely that this meeting will change his mind. He will meet with her for fifteen years, but before this time he will not call her to marry.
The French also have certain requirements for potential spouses. For example, financial independence - so that the wife does not sit on his neck (we already talked about greed and emancipation above). In addition, the French, as a rule, love home-grown economic women, who with a firm hand are able to lead a life and keep the house in order and cleanliness. Also, a candidate for a wife should understand that the husband in the family is the main one. He should be honored, obeyed, admired and pityed when necessary. In turn, the wife has the right to expect help from the husband at home and with the children - and, as a rule, she receives this help without any problems. And the Frenchman will not be indignant if his wife did not succeed in preparing this or that dish. Of course, he will initially expect from her the ability to cook various dishes (the French are noble gourmets and just love to eat tasty meals), but if his expectations are not met, he will not be upset, but will consider it an extra reason to go to a restaurant and have some fun.
By the way, in France, a marriage contract is often concluded. Often, according to its conditions, the management of the family budget after marriage passes to the spouse, which greatly simplifies her life.
More about the differences in mentality
We have already given several examples in the course of the article about the difference between the characters of French and Russian men. Let's say a few more. This is, first of all, the attitude to a woman "for forty". Divorces are frequent in Russia precisely because the husband is tired of an aging wife and he found himself a young girl. In France, men get divorced not because their spouse is tired, but because of a desire to change their lives. And most often they take a new wife for themselves the same age as the former spouse. The French are generally respectful of middle-aged women - unlike, again, Russians, for many of whom the main thing in a woman is a beautiful appearance and a sexy figure.
In addition, continuing the discussion on the attitude towards women: the French, considering them equal to themselves, absolutely sincerely and attentively listen to everything that women say, have an equal conversation with them and make sure that the woman is always and in every sense good.
Another difference is that French men look after themselves. And they do this not by those who belong to non-traditional sexual orientation, but all in order to look good. For the French, it’s absolutely normal and natural to smell not later, but a good and tasty perfume, shave armpits, use cream. They monitor their figure, but not because they want to have pumped muscles and abs, but because they want to be in good shape and not have health problems.
What do the French men look like?
We talked about the character, let's move on to appearance. For French men, appearance is very important, they all adhere to the proverb “Meet by clothes, see off the mind,” and that’s why they try to dress stylishly and elegantly. The Frenchman’s “bow” necessarily assumes the availability of accessories - long scarves, umbrellas or canes, bags, glasses in fashionable and / or unusual frames, hats, caps or berets. All this and much more makes the Frenchman easily recognizable among other men and gives a special uniqueness to his style.
Often, French men wear various jewelry - not massive gold chains, of course, like the “new Russians”, but something discreet and very personal - for example, a gift from a loved one, which can be a bracelet, chain or pendant.
How do French men dress? Bright, and this is another difference from the Russians who prefer black, gray or brown. Well, at worst, blue. The color palette of clothes of French men is full of all shades of the rainbow - they also wear pink, not counting this as a manifestation of homosexuality. And they pick up clothes by age. A Frenchman over thirty will no longer wear sneakers and a tracksuit; he will prefer good shoes, polos and coats.
The Frenchman’s favorite wardrobe is his shoes. Perhaps the most money they spend is on her. Dear, stylish and beautiful - you don’t need sandals in the hole, you don’t have pointed shoes, or anything else “according to the latest fashion.” Shoes for a Frenchman are a fetish. And the fetish for them is their hair. They always try to look as if they spent no more than one minute in front of the mirror, even if they actually spent three hours. The French almost do not make short haircuts, preferring to grow hair, which is then styled with spectacular curls that fall on the forehead and eyes. In addition, French guys love beards - not kilometer and groomed, but neat little beards or light bristles.
Handsome French men: who are they?
The fact that the French are beautiful is noted by many. The most suitable people to confirm this are the French actors. These men are famous and popular, but certainly not everyone knows that he comes from the country of musketeers.
Meanwhile, this list includes a large number of names. Here are just a few of them.
Examples of French Actors
Perhaps, everyone knows about Alain Delon, and hardly anyone will object that he does not belong to the most handsome French men. In addition to him, one can name Vincent Cassel and Gerard Depardieu, Jean Dujardin and Pierre Richard, Jean-Paul Belmondo and Jean Reno, Christian Clavier and Dani Boone, Omar C and Guillaume Canet, Luke Besson and Francois Ozon ... The list goes on and on . But do not forget about the French actors who have already passed away.
They were no less beautiful than living to this day. This, for example, Louis de Funes and Jean Marais, Yves Montand and Gerard Philippe, Francois Truffaut and Jean-Louis Barrot and so on.
Interesting facts about the French
- The French prefer a sweet breakfast, such as croissants. They decided to dunk in coffee.
- They are very fond of receiving and sending postcards - by regular mail.
- Sunday for the French is a family day. Shops are mostly closed.
- The French love Russian art - especially literature.
- Most of the French dream of leaving to live in Canada.
- The French keep utility bills, which they often save on, all their lives. And in general, they are very jealous of any documents.
This is information about the French men. And may she be useful to someone when meeting and communicating with them!