The family is a social group based on marriage or blood relationship, the members of which are united by living together and managing the household, as well as by emotional bond and responsibilities towards each other.
Since the family is the smallest cell of society, all existing problems of various nature are reflected in it. The problems of a modern family are so multifaceted, and their roots are so deep that sometimes it is impossible to solve them without the help of a specialist.
Any child needs it, because no public organizations, orphanages and kindergartens are able to replace it.
According to psychologists and researchers, modern society is in a state of persistent crisis, which means this also applies to its smallest particle. Let’s look at what the problems of the modern family are, so that you can find some logical way out of the situation.
First of all, it should be noted that the number of people in it is becoming less and less. For example, if before there were about a dozen children, then it was normal to have three, then now there are more and more of those couples who stay on one child. Moreover, this state of affairs does not always develop because parents do not want to have a second child because of their whims. Very often, this is caused by financial situation, fear for the future of the baby, as well as many health problems that can affect both a man and a woman. Such problems of the modern family entail the degeneration of the nation, because mortality for a long time exceeds the birth rate.
The next problematic situation is the growing alienation between parents and children, because there is a gap between them, based on the difference in educational systems. Mom and dad were brought up on the same moral values, and the children already see other guidelines: successfully marry, look at the world easier, do not think about other people's problems and so on. Of course, such social problems of the modern family cannot but have a basis: everything is inherent in modern society. It is also indisputable that parental representations were not always ideal, but the attitude was always good and positive. When the goal is maximum, at least an average result will be achieved. If the framework of good and evil is blurred, there are reservations, children instantly feel this and follow the path of least resistance.
Among the main growing problems are also called the development of a negative attitude towards school teachers and disrespect for them. Of course, the quality of the teaching staff is reduced, and the school is undergoing a crisis. No one will argue with this. However, these social problems of the family are generated not only by objective factors, but also by the parents themselves. Very often commodity-money relations begin to prevail in relations with teachers. The society is so mired in corruption networks that even at school they try to apply it. In many ways, the parents themselves are to blame for this. They begin to provoke teachers who are already offended by salaries (as many people think). But the teacher, if he does not like something, can find himself a more profitable option in terms of payment. And representatives of student families should not provoke him.
Undoubtedly, the problems of the modern family are almost at the peak of their development. But this does not mean that one should put an end to this unit of society. After all, many families can rationally distribute a meager budget, while not depriving children of either attention or love. You should give your child the right attitude in life so that he can distinguish good from bad and follow the right path. When family relationships are positive, all adversity will be submitted to a strong will and a strong mind.