Rights of the child in the family

The family is a small, but important cell in society, in which, over time, quite important events take place, namely, the birth of a beloved, small child. Despite the fact that the child until the age of eighteen years is completely dependent on his parents, at birth he automatically acquires his rights. The very first rights of a child in a family are that he must live and be educated, know his parents regardless of whether they are married or live separately, of course, except when information about biological parents is not known.

The basic rights of the child in the family lie not only in parental care, when all his physical needs are satisfied, but also when a sincere interest is shown in everything that relates to the child and what surrounds him. This is, first of all, parental attention, love, interest, when parents are able to help cope with various internal and interpersonal conflicts, adapt it to life, instill love for others, develop self-confidence, and also suppress the presence and development of possible immoral thoughts and misconduct. It is necessary for the child to create conditions with full upbringing, to ensure communication with both mom and dad, as well as with grandparents, sisters, brothers and all relatives.

What rights does the child have? At birth, he must receive a surname, name and patronymic, which must be indicated on the birth certificate. It should be noted that the surname is assigned by both parents by agreement, in this case the surname of the father or mother is given, the name of the baby is also determined jointly, but the middle name is assigned according to the name of the father. By the way, from the age of 14 the child himself has the right to change his name and surname by writing a statement to the necessary authorities. The rights of the child in the family also lie in the fact that, in spite of his age, he can fully express his opinion under any circumstances, especially when the issue is affected by his interests. Also, the child can fully use the right of ownership to receive income or any kind of property that is transferred to him as a gift or by inheritance, as well as use and own all the property of his parents when they live together.

I would like to note the fact that the protection of the rights of the child in the family in an administrative order, in case of abuse of parental rights and cruel treatment of the child, is carried out by law enforcement agencies, as well as guardianship, trusteeship, prosecutors and the courts. Very often, parents forget that the rights of the child in the family are so important as the rights of adults, so remember that the child is never and never to blame for his parents that he was born or that he brought additional difficulties and did not justify the expectations and hopes of their parents. Your child, like yourself, is no one's property, he is an individual, an individual and an independent person, and breaking his fate, because in your opinion this will be right, no one has any right. Parents, by contrast, having studied aspirations, abilities, and inclinations, should help guide the child on the right path in life. You must admit, very often in life there are cases when in childhood we are forced to go, for example, to a music school and after a while, we just hate this instrument and at an unconscious level we begin to despise our parents that they made us not interesting and boring business for us.

Remember that a child, like any adult with a certain experience, cannot always be obedient, sweet and impeccably fulfill parental wishes. It must be remembered that in most children's moods lies the fault of the parents themselves because they did not understand him in time, imposed their opinions, demanded from him what he was unable to do, in other words, they did not and did not learn to perceive him as such as he is.

Source: https://habr.com/ru/post/F4512/


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