School is a special institution where all the positive and negative processes that are emerging in society are manifested. Children are a plastic material from which for the time being you can twist ropes. What channel in the river of life will be chosen by the future person? Whether a small person chooses a stormy, but interesting path that involves the ability not only to survive, but to communicate normally with people around him, or whether he will become an inhabitant of the swamp, risking drowning among those who consider themselves to be a special category of people, depends on what rules of behavior at school were considered generally accepted. Yes, yes, this is not a reservation. There is a huge difference between the rules that are recorded in the charters of schools and those that dominate educational institutions. A clear confirmation of this idea is the sensational series "School". No matter how we scolded him, but still a good share of truth in the film is present. And if society does not turn to face the school, as it does not sound trite, the series “School” prophesies that in the near future all relations in educational institutions will look approximately the same. The decline of morality is clearly demonstrated, first of all, by our children in communication in their own circle.
Such skepticism is justified, because the rules of conduct in school today exist only on paper. Let's try to touch on each of the generally accepted postulates of student behavior and objectively, without bias, consider the extent to which they correspond to the culture of behavior of students.
Let's start with the exterior. At one time, school uniforms were canceled. Having realized his mistake, which turned the organized team into a diverse crowd, the majority of educational institutions returned to the fact that the student should go to classes in uniform. However, the majority of students neglect this rule and, unfortunately, nothing can be done about it. The problem is that such an appearance is disorganizing and does not set the student up for serious activity at school. Not many parents understand this. And among them there are those who indulge the whims of their children. And what can a teacher who does not have any rights to do with dignity to get out of this situation. Thus, even those students who had the proper appearance, stop wearing uniforms.
The culture of schoolchildren's behavior is clearly displayed in their relations with elders, especially with teachers. Unfortunately, today the teacher is not an authority for the student. And this is part of the guilt of the teachers themselves. If we connect this behavior at school, established by the internal rules, then let's see what the appearance of modern school tutors is. It is clear that democratization applies to everyone, but not so much that the elementary school teacher could come to the lesson in a miniskirt or in a dress with an open neckline.
When a conversation comes to a topic such as rules of conduct at school, for some reason it is generally accepted that their implementation is the prerogative of only the children's contingent. But in fact equal parents of the educational process are also parents and their substitutes. Why, then, we demand from children that their behavior at school be as flawless as outside its walls, and that we themselves very often show disregard for the norms of behavior established in society. Honor and dignity, which is lacking in adults, cannot be instilled by force when the word diverges from deed. Respect for elders, care for the younger ones - these are the rules of conduct at school that apply to other areas of life.
Of course, it is possible to argue and disagree with the point of view of the author of this article, but if we ourselves ignore the fact that we diligently perform our labor duties and are constantly late and truant, then our children will reflect our behavior as a mirror.