There are no parents in the world who would not want to see their child smart and educated. But sometimes, while making every effort for a high-quality result in training, many make a mistake by instilling in their children an excessive enthusiasm for a variety of sciences. It would seem that it is bad if children devote all their time to learning, because they will grow up and be able to achieve certain heights thanks to their knowledge. Yes, there is nothing wrong with that if you skillfully alternate time for study, leisure, hobbies and so on. But if you go too far and study, study and study all the time, then soon your child may pass for a nerd among peers. If this does not bring discomfort to the parents, then the child will certainly be uncomfortable with the constant ridicule and nit-picking of classmates and other people.
Worked - rest!
A person’s life can only be full and joyful when balance is present in it in all areas. This provision also applies to the educational process, because only the correct distribution of time for training will be useful and enjoyable. Undoubtedly, study is very important for every person, because hearing the words about ignorance is even worse than being called a nerd. Nevertheless, many smart children react very hard to mockery, responding to offenders with tears in their eyes that nerds are also people. But what to do right and get out of the vicious circle of resentment and bullying?
Of course, there is a way out, and it can be found in any case, but how long this will take place depends entirely on the age of the child. If the child is at the initial stage of education, then mothers and fathers should pay more attention to the rest of the child. Parents need to insist that their son or daughter walk more with friends, maybe go to some sections and so on, because only in this way will children form the correct attitude to the world.
It is much more difficult to “become one” in adolescence, when most stereotypes are already formed, because then a nerd is not just a cramming child, but a person who does not follow the hobbies of young people. Recognizing such a unique in the ranks of expressive adolescents as their own can be very, very difficult.
Who are you in fact?
Many children can call the nerds of other well-trained peers, although they are not. To understand this matter, you need to find out the true meaning of the word nerd. Parsing the concept of this word (and there are many of them), you can see that nerds are people who study a lot, while they are too fixated on this process, not noticing other interesting things around them.
As a rule, a nerd is a person with an inexpressive appearance and poor physical characteristics. Most often, this appearance is isolated by the lack of the necessary knowledge in the current fashion and poor physical preparation. As a result, it turns out that such a person is not interested in his peers and the opposite sex. Therefore, he succumbs to the oppression of stronger people, although he is a very intelligent person.
Boys and girls
A nerd is most often a boy or a young man, although cramped girls are also having a hard time. Girls can also be called and offended, but it all happens much milder than with guys.
Since it is the nerds who are the most susceptible to such ridicule, very often verbal bullying turns into assault. The saddest thing is that in such situations, the young men do not complain to anyone, so as not to become the object of even greater bullying, so everything is repeated again and again. It is difficult to break such a circle of circumstances alone, so the help of specialists is needed.
Stay yourself
One of the reasons for insulting nerds is not that they are too smart, but that they cannot fend for themselves because of their poor physical condition. Otherwise, no one would dare to say too much, because he could have received for it. Only not always good physical fitness helps to find friends and girlfriends. The main thing in any situation is to remain yourself, you do not need to change internally to enter one or another company. After all, it is not society that chooses a person, but man - a society.
Good friends and peers will treat any person kindly, if they themselves are. If they are callous and rude, it doesn’t matter who is in front of them, this nerd or someone else, because they like to hurt the weak.
Unprecedented Transformation
If you never change your inner world before others, then external changes for the better will always be useful. To get rid of unnecessary mockery in clothing and style, nerds would be best to turn to stylists and hairdressers. After all, for sure, behind the inconspicuous hair and shapeless robes lies a very pretty appearance. With this approach, you can completely change the attitude of others to themselves. After all, a completely updated look of a smart handsome man will make you change the negative opinion of many to the opposite.
Stylish things, a fashionable haircut, correctly selected accessories - and there is no trace of a nerd. Such a person can not be recognized, because a nerd - who is this? Inconspicuous crammer. And this person is completely different - chic, fashionable and very smart. This is how you can completely change and become the standard of incompatible concepts - beauty and mind.