Solid men always seem attractive and reliable, which allows them to find a common language not only with women, but also with colleagues at work. You are not completely confident in yourself, is something going wrong in work and personal life? Consider changing your style. So, what traits are inherent in respectable men?
Appearance
Escorted by the mind, but always met by clothes. It is the appearance of a man that makes a first impression on people. How it will be, positive or negative, is up to you. Pay attention to the following tips:
- Freshness and style will be given to your image by clean, washed hair. In this case, it is not necessary to do a hairstyle.
- Wear a beard or mustache? It is wonderful! Do not forget to look after them, from time to time to level them.
- Apply deodorants and colognes to a clean body, the only way they will produce the desired effect.
- If you are a married man, this does not mean that you can forget about your appearance.
- Of course, comfortable clothing is good. But try to make sure that it suits you. Baggy and worn jeans do not look attractive.
- Remember that a respectable man is not necessarily a wealthy man. If you want to focus on just that, pick yourself an interesting accessory - for example, an expensive watch.
- You will be surprised if you find out how many people at the meeting first pay attention to shoes. Give her due attention, always keep her clean.
Choose a suit
As you know, the main attribute of any man is a suit. This is a beautiful universal thing that can be worn on work, and on holiday, and on a date. How to choose the right suit? Remember the main rule - you need it to suit you. Respectable men choose high-quality, bought in company stores or custom-made suits. Remember: avaricious pays twice. Purchased expensive suit will serve you for more than one year, while cheap and low-quality options will often have to be changed. The darker the color of the suit you choose, the more refined it is. A black or gray jacket will look chic and more expensive than light, regardless of their real price. Colored suits (brown, green) are not intended for work. They need to be worn in a club or for a walk.
You can wear a jacket and pants from different sets. It is only necessary to ensure that their fabrics are combined with each other in texture and color. The jacket can be single-breasted or double-breasted. The choice depends on your preference. In the second case, the jacket should be fastened with all buttons. When choosing a shirt for a suit, pay attention to the cotton or with a small addition of synthetics options. It is better if it is light - white, pale blue, light gray. The color of the tie should be combined with the shade of the shirt and suit.
Image errors
Solid men also make mistakes. Here is some of them:
- Corduroy fabric in a suit.
- Too short socks that, in the “foot to foot” position, leave part of the leg open.
- Old, previously used handkerchief.
- Dangling, not fully sewn buttons.
- Crumpled, ironing suit or shirt.
- Incorrectly tied tie.
- Too bright details of clothes, color mismatch.
- Elements of sports or military style in a suit (patch pockets, shoulder straps).
Manners
Appearance is not everything. The solidity of a man lies in his behavior. In the way he speaks and what he does. Solid men are an important unit of this society. Each of them is reliable and indispensable. "Solidity" is interpreted from the Latin language as "dense, complete, whole." A prerequisite for this characteristic is a sense of inner integrity. Such a man does not need to worry and worry - he is initially confident in himself.
In communication, a respectable man is simple. He avoids talkativeness and idle talk, which from the first second inspires confidence in the interlocutors. People around him listen to him, and he, in turn, listens to their words. He does not interrupt, does not shout, does not require approval. His voice is confident, clear, clear. He is in no hurry, but he does not take too long pauses.
If you are a married man, you do not flirt with other ladies in public, thereby preserving your reputation. You always speak positively about your spouse, do not discuss your personal life with other people. In the end, everyone chooses how to dress and how to behave. Remember that success in all areas of life depends on your appearance and behavior.