Everyone constantly dreams. Some of them can be remembered, some are erased from memory even before morning. Many girls and women face a problem when they dream of a former lover. Why such dreams? What are they talking about? Are there any esoteric meaning in them, or are vivid dreams just the result of the activity of the subconscious?
Are prophetic dreams a reality?
Today there are many dream books, each of which offers different explanations for things seen in a dream. Of course, there are many esoteric teachings, legends, stories, religions that recognize the existence of prophetic dreams. Many women who have to see a former lover in a dream consider this to be a testament of ardent feelings on the part of a man.
Is it true? There is hardly a single answer to this question. After all, there are many facts that deny the existence of prophetic dreams. At the same time, thousands of people say that on the eve of various important events they see warning dreams. It is an exclusively matter of faith.
As for scientific research, their results indicate that sleep is a manifestation of the intense work of the subconscious.
Dreaming of a former lover - why? Freud Value
Yes, Z. Freud agreed that dreams are manifestations of the unconscious. The founder of psychoanalysis paid much attention to the analysis of dreams. After all, the subconscious mind communicates with consciousness through images and pictures. Naturally, the scientist has often had to deal with patients who dream of a former lover. Why such a dream?
If you and your loved one just recently broke up, then it’s quite normal to see the ex-boyfriend (or husband) in a dream, because you had to break your usual way of life, refuse to communicate and have relationships that somehow influenced the development of your personality.
But what if you already have a new relationship that you are quite happy with? If you have a husband and family, and you have not seen a former guy for several years? In such cases, Freud advised paying attention to the little things. Perhaps in a past relationship you had something that is so lacking with a partner now? For example, then there was more romance, more passion, more sensuality, and now you just lack such vivid emotions?
Sometimes the subconscious mind tries to warn a woman that in a new relationship she makes the same mistakes as in the past.
What is the dream of a former lover? Dream interpretation of Tsvetkova
This dream book is today considered the largest, and many women use it to explain their dreams. So why do former lovers dream? If an unmarried girl in a dream saw a former guy, then this could portend some frivolous act, which will be committed by her in the near future. Be careful, as the seemingly harmless frivolity can lead to serious, even deplorable consequences.
A completely different interpretation of the dream seen by a divorced or married woman. In this case, a dream predicts the appearance of unpleasant troubles. Problems can be associated with forced long trips, the illness of the husband (if he is). Dreams can signal a worsening of financial problems.
Esoteric dream book
This dream book also gives a very detailed explanation of such dreams. To dream of a former lover, while having warm feelings for him, is a manifestation of the consequences of some events that happened a long time ago.
If in a dream you kiss the former, then be prepared for events that will surprise you. If you make love, then this may indicate the impending exacerbation of some old conflict. Sometimes women dream that a man still loves them - this is to pleasant surprises. If in a dream a former loved one marries someone, then in the near future you can forgive someone. If you act as a bride, then get ready for trouble.
A strong quarrel with an ex-boyfriend predicts some pleasant changes in his personal life. If in a dream you are fighting, then be prepared for the appearance of an authoritarian companion in your life. Parting may portend a pleasant acquaintance or meeting.
What do modern dream books say?
There are many modern dream books that many women turn to if a former lover dreams. Why such a dream?
- If an ex-boyfriend helps you in a dream, this portends a quick victory over difficulties or opponents.
- If in a dream you are a former lover who is no longer alive, then this may be a warning of danger.
- If a lover dies (in a dream) - this is a harbinger of future marriage or pregnancy. If in a dream a man dies from your hand, then you can count on luck in all future endeavors.
- If in a dream you don’t recognize a once familiar and dear guy, then in real life global changes can await you, both for the better and for the worse.
- For some women in a dream, former lovers are presented with gifts. Such a dream can be a harbinger of betrayal partner.
- It is worth preparing for bad events if your ex-boyfriend appeared in an unkempt dream.
What do modern psychologists think?
It should be noted right away that dream analysis is not an exact science. Modern psychologists consider the pictures seen in a dream as signals of the subconscious, which try to give answers to your questions, suggest what exactly needs to be changed in your life.
If you are constantly tormented by dreams about a former lover, try to distract. Find yourself a new hobby or an interesting activity that will give you such vivid emotions that it will eclipse the image of an ex-boyfriend for a long time. If obsessive dreams do not disappear, then you should contact a psychologist. Still, the clues of the subconscious mind should not be ignored, and deciphering them yourself is not always easy.
For example, if you broke up with a young man or husband after a serious disagreement, then there is an unresolved conflict. Constant dreams about him may indicate that the subconscious is trying to solve it, playing various possible scenarios. And, of course, do not forget that sometimes a dream is just a dream and nothing more.