When wedding greetings cease, it becomes obvious for yesterday's brides that their chosen ones are not at all like the fairy-tale princes they dreamed about, or the "stone wall" that my mother was talking about. It was then, and family life rolls over them in all its diversity, the individual elements of which penetrate even night dreams. To understand their true meaning, we listen to the opinion of connoisseurs, and we learn, for example, why in a dream to quarrel with her husband.
Advice from overseas
Wanting to get rid of unnecessary worries of those women who, waking up, remember with horror that they had told their husbands in a dream, we recommend that they open a dream book compiled by the American scientist Gustav Miller. It is well-known in our country both in scientific circles, where they pay tribute to his work in the field of psychology, and among the general public who are happy to read his dream book. In it, an overseas specialist very positively evaluates this kind of vision.
In his opinion, cursing with a husband in a dream does not at all mean an imminent discord in family life. It’s just the opposite: the more violent the mutual reproaches and insults, the stronger the love and trust will be in reality. In this case, there is the so-called effect of a sleep-shifter. And yet, the author warns that such a vision can sometimes indicate a certain threat from the outside, so you should not really relax.
From the sayings of the Bulgarian soothsayer
Another very interesting interpretation of sleep was made in Bulgaria by the famous soothsayer Vanga. She did not give him an unambiguous assessment, but recommended paying attention to details, the main of which, in her opinion, was the appearance in which her husband appeared before the woman. It is on this whether a positive or negative interpretation depends on the dream.
Seeing the faithful, though showered with curses, but, at the same time, peppy and cheerful, the night brawler may not worry - in reality their union is not in danger. He will prosper in spite of all the blows of fate. Much worse if the husband, watered by streams of abuse, looked pale and miserable. In this case, real life can bring unwanted surprises. So, in all respects it is better that he, in a dream and in reality, be well-groomed and happy.
Opinion of the Austrian Psychoanalyst
Opening the "Freund's Dream Book", experienced readers foresee in advance in which way his interpretations will be sustained, because it is known that the Austrian psychoanalyst saw a certain sexual background in everything. He did not disappoint lovers of spicy and, analyzing the question of why in a dream to swear with her husband. To begin with, the master claims that any manifestation of aggression in a dream (words or action), one way or another, is related to sexual intercourse.
He further clarifies that if in a dream quarrel (or even a fight) the initiative belonged to the husband, then in reality he feels a passion for his wife, which she does not fully satisfy. However, in this case there may be nuances. If during a skirmish a woman has a feeling that her husband is a stranger to her, then in real life, she will become a victim of sexual harassment by an outside man, for which she should be ready.
It is another matter if a woman, on her own initiative, swears in a dream with her husband, seizing, at the same time, the initiative. Such a plot speaks of her sexual dissatisfaction. In this case, again, we must take into account the details. The spouse's cold and alien face may indicate that the wife is internally ready to make up for the deficit that has formed on the side. We also note that, according to Freud, if a woman in a dream strongly swears with her husband, while reaching frenzy, this indicates her penchant for sexual masochism.
How did the ancient Chinese curse in a dream?
The question of why arguing with a husband in a dream worried people even at the dawn of civilization, at least this is evidenced by an essay, the authorship of which is attributed to the ancient Chinese god (!) Zhou-Gong, from the filing of which, the inhabitants of the Celestial Empire visited night dreams . Today, a dream book entitled by his name has gone out of print. In it you can find very interesting interpretations of everything that you have to see in a dream.
To swear with a husband, according to the ancient deity (or someone who writes on his behalf) does not promise any complications in reality, but on the contrary portends joy and future happy events. However, there is one “but” that lies in those expressions that the spouses used to clarify the relationship. If in the heat of a quarrel they used only decent words, then in the morning they would have nothing to worry about. Worse, when not normative vocabulary was used. In this case, there could be serious problems in reality.
The point of view of our compatriots
The question of why in a dream to quarrel with her husband is not ignored by many domestic interpreters, whose work is widely represented today on the shelves of bookstores. In one of these publications, bearing the modest name of "Modern Dream Book", there is even a list of real consequences of a dream quarrel, depending on a number of its features.
So, a trifling quarrel, in their opinion, does not entail negative consequences in real life, but just the opposite - it portends good news. Even if it develops into a loud skirmish with a listing of past grievances, there is still no reason for unrest. Such a reflection of real life will not cause harm, and may indicate a fast career growth.
Next on their list is a “mid-range scandal.” An exact definition of this term is not given, but, apparently, it implies a situation in which a wife in a dream swears with her husband and cries, reproaching him with a "ruined youth." This is a traditional technique that even very young people resort to. The compilers of this dream book here remain optimistic, assuring that in reality such a dream only serves to aggravate love feelings.
Fighting scandals
Moving further upwards, following the “scandal of medium importance” they have “easy assault”, not yet outlived from family life, and therefore reflected in a dream. And in this case, the authors of the dream book are overwhelmed by optimism to such an extent that they consider the beatings in a dream to be the messengers of unexpected happiness. It doesn’t matter who beat whom and how the brawl ended.
And finally, the pinnacle of family relationships is a “serious fight”. This is the form of communication that leads to a hospital bed, and sometimes behind bars. The compilers also did not forget to mention it in their dream book. Swearing in a dream with her husband, throwing fists and everything that turns up on hand, according to their version is a bad omen. Both in a dream and in reality, such an incident can lead to a complete gap between the spouses. Therefore, waking up after such a nightmare, you need to take care of each other with a vengeance.
What does it mean to swear in a dream with an ex-husband?
Unfortunately, even the most beloved (and sometimes loving) husbands often pass into the category of "former". Since they under all circumstances remain for a woman a part of her life, it is not surprising that sometimes they are in her dreams, and if previous relationships were marred by scandals, they continue to sort things out.
That is why the question of why in a dream to quarrel with a husband who has remained in a past life excites many women, and therefore is covered in various publications. The authors of the popular dream books these days hold different points of view, but most of them believe that this is a good sign that promises good luck. Moreover, if a woman has not yet managed to start a family, then a hassle in a dream with her ex-husband portends her a new romantic relationship, which, as you know, can develop into a serious feeling. A new life will begin in which you will not have to wrangle your husband in a dream or in a dream.
Farewell to the past
To see such scenes, as many commentators claim, means to want to leave the past and rebuild your destiny. In addition, for those women whose goal is career growth, sleep can serve as a sign of imminent success in the intended business. In any case, a scene from the past should prompt a woman to the idea that it is time for her to improve her present, and if there is a need, to deal with the device of her personal life.