A man lives for himself, tries not to do anything reprehensible in life, for which it would be a shame. But good deeds, if possible, seeks to do more. And it’s not for putting a tick to yourself, so that in the next world (if there really is one) you can get a “credit”, but according to your sincere aspiration. Time passes, but for some reason his good side comes out sideways. And then he begins to realize: indeed, the road to hell is paved with good intentions ...
And the point here is not at all human ingratitude and that justice does not exist, just the world is imperfect. The reason is in the person who naively believes that he does good deeds.
Is pity a good feeling or a bad one? It would seem that compassion helps humanity to survive. But it is not for nothing that they say that the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Or maybe humanism also helps the human race to degrade?
Are you familiar with a situation where a parent's minion grows up as an unadaptable person? He does not seem to notice that the "holiday of childhood" is long over and it is time to get down to business. For the continuation of the banquet to last, he needs easy money ... Who is to blame? Can parental love lead to imprisonment of their beloved child? Can! They say that with good intentions the road to hell is paved.
And what should an alcoholic's wife do? He does not give life, he drinks all the money, he also began to take things out of the house. And growing children need decent clothes, but we don’t live in the post-war period ... But you feel sorry for him, he’ll completely disappear ... So it turns out again: the road to hell is paved with good intentions - the whole family goes along it!
What happens when gopniks beat a teenage musician in a dead gateway? Is it bad? Undoubtedly. But the boy, despite being busy, also enrolled in the sports section. He grew up a strong and confident person. He will remember that cruel lesson all his life, however, without much anger, because that incident even helped him in some way.
Is it possible to say that the road to hell is paved with good intentions, and to heaven to the unseemly ones? Look, what conclusion itself suggests itself, but this is a mistake! Such a judgment of bullying and cruelty will justify, untie the hands of nonhumans ... Moreover, the scope of errors can be global. Remember the recent past: they wanted to enrich the peoples of the earth with culture, but they came to fascism. By the way, as a child, Hitler wrote good pictures, and if he had been accepted to an art school, maybe there would have been no hyperabicious politician and the tyrant would have been realized differently?
Where is the justice? How to understand a simple little man what to do? And the truth, it is just in the middle. None of the extremes do well. In human life everything should be, but in moderation. Both love and severity. Then only harmony is possible. Reckless love does not multiply good at all, but creates idleness and evil. Excessive rigor will lead to cruelty and violence.
So that the road to hell is not paved with good intentions, you need to properly educate children. What is the relationship? Let's figure it out.
We all come from childhood. Whether the person we see or who we think of is bad or good, he was shaped by the environment and events of long-forgotten days. The future of children, of course, is in the hands of parents. It depends on their worldview and an objective understanding of life. And also from whether they understand that it is impossible to live autonomously in human society. If you turn a blind eye to someone else's misfortune, our children, becoming adults, will encounter this unresolved problem, manifested as the cruelty of the outside world.