Anything happens in family life , and sometimes love develops into hatred, because as they say in the well-known saying: "From love to hate is one step." Sometimes, when the phrase “I hate my husband” revolves in my head, many women begin to blame themselves for this and feel how the marriage is being destroyed. In fact, there is nothing fatal in such emotions, the main thing is to overcome them in time and then family happiness will be regained.
There is no single and unequivocal advice on how to overcome hatred, but nevertheless there are a lot of ways with which you can solve this problem. If a problem such as “I hate my husband” begins to bother daily, you should sit down and calmly weigh everything. It is necessary to determine the reason why this feeling arises, and then try to find a solution to it, because there are no hopeless situations if you want to understand the problem.
But still, there are some common situations that make wives hate their husbands. It is worth considering them in order to try to overestimate the personal attitude to the situation.
1. It is always worth remembering that a man is a child, and he always remains so. Some men remain at the age of 5, and few manage to grow to 16 years of age. A woman is a creature that grows up all her life, changing her interests, values, rules, etc. If the husband does not know how to react to what his wife is doing, it is useless to hate him for it, because children sometimes cannot manifest everything that is inside them. But they are not hated for this, but taught. Perhaps you should try to teach your husband everything over again?
2. Sometimes, hating her chosen one, a woman makes his life more comfortable and from this her hatred increases even more, and sometimes it reaches the limit. The husband can, on the contrary, try to evoke these emotions to make him more comfortable. Therefore, you need to carefully weigh everything. It happens that a woman herself becomes the cause of her own hatred, absolutely not understanding this!
3. The phrase "I hate my husband" often sounds after his betrayal, because all women know that men are polygamous creatures, but as soon as they become wives, they stop recognizing it. In general, family betrayal by the stronger half is a twofold event. If a man did everything so that his wife would not know anything about it, but she accidentally sniffed everything, there is no point in silently hating. Marriage will not collapse because of treason, but because of the hatred that lurks. It’s better to either dot all the “i's”, or come up with your own solution to the situation. If the situation is such that the man has changed and knows that his wife is in the know, then you can’t hate him all the more, because in this way his pride will increase. It is worth finding either a way to solve the problem, or a way of revenge.
4. If all of the above thoughts did not help get rid of the thought “I hate my husband,” it’s worth continuing to think and compare the facts. Sometimes hatred is domestic, and it is the most stupid. The husband can take a favorite place on the TV, at the computer, drink from his wife’s favorite cup, etc. Yes, no matter how primitive it may sound, but such petty situations cause serious negative emotions, and if it has already come to the realization that hatred is found on household soil, you need to instantly restrain yourself, switching to some bright and positive moments of family life.
5. “I hate my husband, but I love” - how often women catch themselves on such thoughts. And if hatred is at this particular stage, then do not worry at all. It's just that there is a small crisis in the relationship, perhaps because the husband does not pay as much attention as before, does not compliment or give flowers. Do not despair, you just need to renew the romantic relationship for everything!
But if the thought “I hate my husband” doesn’t leave my head from morning to evening and no solutions are found, you should contact a psychologist or tell your husband about this. Perhaps then life will change for the better or even change dramatically!