A standard situation that has already gotten sore: a woman complains to her friend that her man does not want to marry. She sympathizes with the answer, in the spirit of "here is a scoundrel!" It doesn’t even occur to her to ask the question: “But he doesn’t want to go to the registry office with anyone, or just with you?” And maybe it comes, but she does not ask, so as not to offend. After all, she guesses why he does not make offers. Hands and hearts, in the sense. He probably offers something else sometimes ...
The eternal question: what does a man want? In complexity, only another can be compared: what does a woman want? In this case, one should distinguish between desire and need. A person does not always want what he needs, and vice versa, he does not necessarily need what he wants. So how do you figure this out?
In fact, for the most part, the desires of both sexes at a certain age coincide. Both of them need a family, they want love, attention and affection. And children are needed, because otherwise it is very difficult to determine the meaning of life, and the chosen one, no matter how stupid he sometimes looks, sometimes he thinks about him. So it’s enough for a woman to listen to herself to understand what a man wants from a woman of the most important thing : love, respect and attention. It’s not so much, but that’s it. And if he gets it, then there will be no question with the registry office.
But this is on condition that he loves himself. But it happens that a lady is racking her brains for what he, as a contagion, still needs. And her apartment. And the work is good, and she herself seems to be wow if the mirror is not lying. And she dresses well, and looks after herself.
Only here men are different, like women. One wife is needed as a replacement for an aging mother, who took care of him, washed, fed, and made all decisions for him all his life. What does a man of this type want? Clear business, it needs to be directed. He, like a horse, should feel a rider. If he goes with the guys for a drink, he knows for sure that the missus will come after him and drive home after a couple of hours. And all is well! This is such a ritual, it expresses displeasure a little, but it will remain satisfied in the soul: it is still not indifferent, and in good hands.
And here is another type, denoted by the expression "Who is the boss in the house?" This one, on the contrary, seeks to dominate. Well, if he can really be responsible for everything that happens in the family - fine. What does the host man want? Everything is clear with him too, he needs to feel his importance, and so the line in front of him ... Women are much smarter than such men often imagine, they can portray complete humility, in fact, they are laughing at the illusion of power that they will be able to create.
The most nasty type of representative of the stronger sex is called a rag. As they say, in lack of fish ... But even at a very critical age and in the most hopeless situation, when a woman considers herself to be a "chance", she should think hard, but does such a husband really need, or is it better to have one? What does a rag man want? Yes, he himself does not know, except for the simplest physiological functions, which include food, sex and a couple of procedures necessary for the body. Work is not included in this list.
There is still a type of man - a free falcon. This case is difficult, but not hopeless. You have to tinker, but it's worth it. The biggest difficulty lies in the fact that such an eagle does not need a woman as a servant or cook, he is used to doing it himself and can do everything. For food and postirushki not buy it. But he has a need to admire himself and be the subject of enthusiasm for his lady of the heart. If there is reason for this, then complete harmony will ensue. But such a man cannot be disappointed.
So, in nature there are only four main types of men. All the rest are just some variations and combinations, because in their pure form psychotypes are rare. By correctly recognizing and applying the right tactics, every woman can ensure her success. But before you act, you still need to think.