We strive for equality so much that sometimes we forget about the possible risks. A successful, beautiful and smart woman catches the eyes of many men. Her independence and self-reliance is respected by her friends, and her career achievements are admired by her colleagues. But are friends, colleagues or just acquaintances ready to become someone big for a woman who earns, perhaps, even more than them? It is worth recognizing that men are wary of such a relationship. Well, when, already in a successful family, a woman begins to bring home more money, quarrels, grievances, and sometimes a divorce begin. Can this be prevented? Is happiness possible if a loved one earns less.
Let us immediately indicate that happiness is always possible if there is love. But family is work, compromise and delicacy. And if you have a situation that a man earns less, you should show all these qualities. So:
1. Stay feminine. Never shift the routine for a woman to a man. If you are a manager in a company, this does not mean that someone else should prepare a family dinner. Take off your formal outfit, put on a plush costume by Jusi Couture and treat your family to your signature dish. At home, you must be a wife and mother, caring and affectionate. Leave severity and waywardness for work.
2. Do not try to switch roles. If you earn more, this does not mean that you have become the earner and head of the family. Leadership is not measured in the amount of money on a payroll card. At that moment when you decide that you are the head of the family, because you make good money, you will lose interest in your husband. In the future, you allow yourself caustic remarks and neglect, which will gradually destroy the relationship. And at that moment when the man gets promoted and starts earning more than you again, the family will already be destroyed. But everything could be different.
3. Do not compare. How often women say to their husbands: “Look at Oleg. He has already opened his own business, and you can hardly live up to your salary. But I could marry him too ... ”Just like that or in my hearts after a quarrel - it doesn’t matter when you say this, but such words will always be remembered. Do not compare your husband with his fellow students, your boyfriends, and even brothers or friends. He is your only one, the best and will certainly achieve his success.
4. Do not make financial decisions yourself. If he is interested in selling clothes that are half the price of men and women, support him. Husband and wife should look the same. And if the spouse is still unable to buy branded items from the new collection, then you will wait a bit.
Treat your husband with respect, do not doubt his abilities. Remember that tomorrow he will bring home more money. And his attitude towards you will be based on your words and actions today.