A characteristic feature of our dreams is that far from all of them, causing positive emotions, are good omens. This is not difficult to verify. Having opened the dream book and choosing some plot that is obviously pleasant to us, we will see how its interpretation changes depending on a number of plot features. For example, let's find out why our own wedding is being dreamed of.
Opinion of unquestioned authority
A review of the interpretations devoted to the question of why one dreams about one's own wedding, we begin with the opinion expressed by the famous American psychoanalyst Gustav Miller in his dream book. Such a choice is not accidental, since it is this author who is recognized as one of the most respected specialists in this field.
In general, he admits that dreaming about his own wedding is a good omen, promising a successful exit from difficult life situations. But at the same time, the scientist warns that there are many other options for interpretation, depending both on the plot features of night vision and on who it was revealed to.
What is dreaming about having an unmarried girl’s own wedding?
The answer of the American scientist will greatly disappoint most girls who dream about princes day and night, who, although they linger on the road, will certainly come to taste the bliss of marriage. Dreaming about them, of course, is nice, but seeing a long-awaited ceremony in a dream does not bode well. Most likely, this will mean that girlish hopes will not come true, and she will not wait for her prince.
However, according to Miller, there is the worst case scenario. Talking about why the unmarried girl dreams of her own wedding, he warns that with a bad omen he will see guests dressed in mourning robes. Such a plot twist may mean that the wedding will take place in reality, but the marriage will be extremely unhappy and will bring the bride a lot of grief and disappointment.
What does this dream bode for a man?
A little optimistically, the interpreter writes about why the guy is dreaming of his own wedding. Such a vision does not portend ills to him, but at the same time it does not bode forthcoming family joys. According to Miller, seeing himself in the role of the groom, the young man should not prepare for the wedding, but for the conclusion of the next business contract. Of course, such an interpretation applies only to those who are engaged in entrepreneurial activity. The rest is recommended not to take it seriously.
A completely different interpretation is given in the dream book of his own wedding, a dream of a married man. Once again seeing himself signing his own wife, he should be wary. Such a plot portends him a possible deterioration in health. However, no dream is the final verdict and always provides the opportunity to take the necessary measures. So in this case - the dreamer is recommended to pay attention to his physical condition and, if necessary, pay a visit to the doctor.
Mysteries of Mr. Freud
Nowadays, no self-respecting dreamer can do without the tips of the Austrian psychiatrist Sigmund Freud. Those who want to know what their own wedding is dreaming of turn to his works. However, in this case, a meaningful, but, admittedly, very vague answer awaits them. The scientist is limited only to the statement that those who saw such a dream await a rather ambiguous surprise, the nature of which they themselves have to guess.
Needless to say, the wording is very convenient, since it covers almost everything that is destined to happen in the near future. The child brought a deuce from school - a surprise, a pimple jumped on his forehead - also a surprise. What can we say about the more significant events that occur daily and can fall like snow on his head. So the meaning of a dream about his own wedding is hardly possible for Freud's dream book.
Interpretations of Wanga and Aesop
The famous Bulgarian soothsayer Vanga did not clarify the interpretation of the dream about her own wedding. In the recordings compiled under her dictation (she herself could not write, since she was blind), it is said that night vision of this kind foreshadows in the near future the need for some kind of decision, which is extremely important both for the dreamer and his family. The predictor is silent about what may cause such a need.
Let us note in passing that the ancient Greek poet and fabulist Aesop also mentioned wedding dreams in his notes. Without going into an explanation of his special approach to issues related to night visions and their influence on the fate of a person, we only note that, in the opinion of the illustrious Greek, to dream of one's own wedding means the approach of life changes. For better or worse, Aesop does not specify, but recommends preparing for them with all the urgency.
The opinion of ancient Greek mathematician
Mentioning Aesop, we will not ignore Pythagoras - another ancient Greek thinker who wondered about the meaning of certain dreams. He left a legacy to the descendants of the notes in which he very negatively describes dreams about his own wedding, but their concrete interpretation makes it dependent on a number of circumstances.
For example, he teaches that if the dream wedding was not accompanied by any complications, then the subsequent strip of adversity (and it will certainly be) will not exceed two weeks. At the same time, any problems that arose during the ceremony predict serious troubles in real life, which should be expected in exactly 19 days. On what the famous mathematician based his calculations, the dream book does not say.
Prepare your excuses in advance
Continuing the theme, Pythagoras writes that if the dreamer feels in his whole body the readiness to go from the official part of the celebrations to the wedding night and is tormented by the fact that it does not occur, then in reality he will become a victim of libel from secret detractors. In this case, he must thoroughly prepare and have in stock the necessary excuses.
Considering that the interpretation of the dream does not provide specific details of the future case, it is recommended that he who sees the dream carefully sort through everything that can be faulted in his actions one way or another. It is funny that Pythagoras, among such reasons for nit-picking, mentions possible cases of theft, betrayal and even murders committed by an unlucky dreamer in recent times.
Women, be vigilant!
In addition to the above-mentioned interpreters, who are, without a doubt, the most authoritative experts in this field, many of our contemporaries also addressed the issue of "why dream about your own wedding". Their point of view is also of great interest to anyone who would like to understand the secret meaning of such dreams.
Most publications that have appeared on store shelves over the past decades give a lot of attention to the question of what a married woman dreams of having her own wedding. Based on the materials published in them, it should be borne in mind that a good omen can only be a plot in which the dreamer performs a marriage ceremony with her real husband. This promises her and her husband passionate love and family happiness.
At the same time, if in a dream the role of the groom will be played by an outsider (it doesn’t matter whether he is familiar or not), one must prepare for treason. Okay, if it will be your own sin, but after all, a missus can go on the side. So - the ear is up and not relax!
Interpretation of dreams according to the days of the week
Oddly enough, but, explaining why a married woman dreams about her own wedding, many commentators attach great importance to the day of the week on which she saw her. As a rule, there are only five points in the tables compiled by them. So, on Monday night, such a vision is seen as a harbinger of quick and unexpected expenses, which are unlikely to be avoided. On Tuesday night, it means swift changes associated with work or business. It is best for a woman to see her own wedding on Wednesday night - interpreters say with confidence that this is for the money.
It is curious that Thursday is not mentioned in any of these lists. Obviously, this night, according to the authors, weddings are not even dreamed of. But on Friday, or rather on the night of this day, beloved by all of us, dreams are considered prophetic, but the dreamers themselves have to guess their meaning, since in each case they are purely individual.
As for Saturday and Sunday, their experts unite together, succinctly explaining that the dream heralded changes in relations, without specifying with whom. Thus, explaining the dreams that visited women on Friday, Saturday and Sunday, the interpreters leave them with wide scope for their own fantasies.
Dreams about preparing for the wedding
At the end of the article, we dwell on what it means to prepare for a wedding in a dream. This question is also covered by the compilers of dream books, and the answer to it depends, first of all, on the characteristics of the dreamer herself. For some reason, in these sections of dream books we are talking mainly about women, as if the representatives of the stronger sex are not concerned with preparations for the wedding.
So, most interpreters agree that if a young girl sees something like this in a dream, then this is a sign that she has a serious cause for concern. Most likely, her potential groom was carried away by a special one, but there is still a chance to return his love. Therefore, not everything is lost, but you need to hurry. A different interpretation has a dream that dreamed an elderly woman. Treason does not threaten her, but life can be overshadowed by other kinds of troubles. However, as the authors of dream books reassure, they will not be too serious.