It just so happened that sincere compliments can be heard exclusively from a man in his address. Many are used to it and take it for granted. But few people know that compliments to her husband also good to hear, like you. No man can resist the affectionate words addressed to him. They will help to understand how important it is for you. How to compliment? Where to begin? And when are they worth talking about?
Why give a man compliments?
As one heroine from the old Soviet film “Vanity of Vanities” said: “Men are such a rarity. Men must be cherished and cherished.” But in fact it turns out in practice. Despite their visual strength and power, most males are vulnerable and gentle people in need of female support. Therefore, her husband needs compliments like air.
Your adored man must know that he is moving in the right direction and performs certain actions quite professionally. Otherwise, he simply loses the goal. He will not strive for anything if no one pays attention to his efforts, actions and achievements.
It’s like in sports. If the athlete is not praised, he will begin to think that his chosen path is wrong. And in the end, he will stop trying and maybe even quit his regular workouts. What for? After all, no one appreciates ?! Therefore, praise your husband wholeheartedly and show him how much you value his work, actions and other matters.
Timely compliments encourage and boost self-esteem
A wise wife knows when to compliment her husband. Especially when he has any troubles at work or something fails. Cheer him up. This will help to understand that you are the very person who will support him at a difficult moment. Moreover, a timely compliment will raise his self-esteem.
Tell your sweetheart: “My beloved sun. Do not worry so. Everything will be alright. You are very talented and smart. The authorities will definitely notice and appreciate you. Everything takes time. Be patient, my knight! ”
When should you compliment?
Have you ever noticed that you are too immersed in the affairs of gray everyday life? There are times when you just do everything on the machine. I don’t want to see anyone. Already nothing pleases, as before.
There is some kind of apathy and chronic fatigue from everyday problems. On the one hand, endless cleaning, ironing, washing, cooking bother. Yes, and children. Constantly they need to be taken somewhere, to do homework with them, to check whether they took everything for school or kindergarten. And it's all exhausting.
But your spouse has similar days, however, for a completely different reason. Especially similar phenomena occur in families where only one husband works, and the wife sits at home. In children, something constantly breaks. They are sick. They need to buy shoes, textbooks - and so on ad infinitum. It’s clear that you are also giving your best. But the spouse, after all, is the earner and the only person on whom the financial well-being of the family depends. Therefore, it is not necessary to expect a reason to say how much your husband is dear to you. Believe me, he will appreciate your attention.
Tell him often how much you value what he does. Tell him: “You are the best husband and father in the world. There are no more people like you in the world. You are the most sensitive, loving and patient. We love you very much!"
“Whoever praises me best of all will receive a sweet candy”
You do not need to be like a cunning and selfish girl from one children's cartoon, which offered everyone who praised her a sweet reward. Your compliments to your husband must be timely (spoken to the place) and come from a pure heart. Do not tell him: “Honey, you are so good, smart. Just gold, not a husband. I saw a beautiful fur coat on the Internet. Give me the money. It’s not expensive at all, and I’ll be like a queen in it. ”
Such a compliment will certainly be insincere. Moreover, if the next time you say nice words just like that, your husband will regard this gesture as a pretense. And of course, this flattery will be for him a kind of signal that you expect some action from him.
Therefore, compliments to the husband from the wife should be sincere and realistic. Do not expect praise in return. And do not demand something from your dear. Believe me, they always require something from him always and without you. Give him a break from this. And if you need to buy something, do not start with flattery, but say everything as it is. For example: “Look what dress I found. It’s just right for the shoes you bought me last year. This is just the perfect tandem. In addition, we will go to your friends soon. “You want everyone to admire how your wife has an excellent taste for things.”
Compliments should emphasize the main strengths of the husband
Do not forget that male and female perceptions are completely different. And if a woman is able to melt from "bunnies", "suns" and "lapuli", such lovely words may well not please your husband. Therefore, you need to think about how to compliment a husband from his wife. For example, in your praise, be sure to give an assessment to the following characteristics of the husband:
- mental abilities;
- strength and endurance;
- perseverance, charm and attractiveness;
- wonderful sense of humor.
Praise your husband more often
Be sure to tell him: “Beloved. You are my tiger. You are very strong and hardy. With you I’m like a stone wall. You are my support, hope and safe haven. You are my joy. With you I am the happiest woman in the world! ”
Well, you must admit that after such words even the most severe Siberian man will melt. Firstly, with these words you emphasize all the main advantages of your sweetheart. Secondly, with their help, you clearly distinguish it from the rest of the male representatives. And thirdly, raise his self-esteem and improve his mood. Your man will definitely understand that he is respected, adored and loving people are waiting for him at home.
Tell your husband how important his help is to you.
Sometimes it’s good for a man to believe that you cannot do without him. Understand that he needs to protect someone, take care and protect his family. Therefore, even if you easily perform certain actions yourself, pretend that the greatest help came precisely with the appearance of your husband. Tell him: “You are my joy. Without you, nothing would have happened ”or“ This is smart girl. I am without you as without arms. ” Be sure to emphasize his leadership qualities: “Beloved. Without you, I would not have had time at all. I don’t even know what I would do if it weren’t for you. ”
Above all, compliment your husband in your own words. In addition, they can be diluted with various phrases that are very personal and even intimate for the two of you. As a rule, it is their spouses who say when they are alone.
In a word, pamper your sweetheart. Feel free to say kind words to him. They are known to be pleasant even to a cat. And your spouse will understand and appreciate them, but only if they are said sincerely and not with a certain intent.