Often the events in our lives do not take place in the scenario according to which we would like to. When everything goes against all our expectations, we, of course, remain disappointed. If these events are associated with a specific person, everything becomes even sadder.
Everyone has their own truth
Situations that you predicted as simple and predictable suddenly happen completely wrong, all the moves get mixed up and nothing depends on you anymore. The worst thing is that it is completely incomprehensible, which prompted a close enough person to do just that. Subsequently, you can guess something, assume something, but you probably will not be able to find out. The only method is to ask the person himself why exactly, and not as you expected, he did. Although there is a possibility that he will not tell the truth . Or he will say, but his truth will go against yours, why you will remain completely at a loss.
You must admit that quite often situations like this happen in our lives. We will never succeed in understanding them simply because the truth is a rather ephemeral and indefinite concept.
The concept of "truth" in philosophy
Russian is perhaps the only language in which concepts such as “truth” and “truth” are separated in meaning. For example, genuine universal truth and personal beliefs of a person in our language have different meanings. How do scientists interpret the concept of "truth"? A definition in philosophy tells us that it is a “commandment”, “promise”, “vow”, “rule”. And if from time immemorial many people have been trying to challenge the truth and remake it under their convictions, then truth is a more stable and undeniable concept. However, few people think that the essence of these words is the same. In semantics, the concepts of “truth” and “truth” can also mean “peace” in the meaning of a divine agreement with humanity, in turn, “violate the world” - violate divine laws.
Friedrich Nietzsche held a completely different point of view on this subject. He argued: "Truth is the same lie, only the herd, which continues to exist even when our existence no longer has it." That is, if a lie takes a large number of people for truth, then it ceases to be a lie. He also argued that "every person who uses colloquial speech inevitably lies, and in human society truth is an erased metaphor."
Truth - what is it?
No man can be objective by virtue of his convictions, bias or subjectivity - this is the truth. In any dispute with an opponent, each of the parties is sure that it is right, which by definition excludes the possibility of the existence of the only true point of view. How many people - so many right opinions. If there are at least some undeniable standards for determining truth, for example, in religion, science and modern technologies, then for the concept of “truth” the definition can be very vague and ephemeral.
Your truth is a lie to others
The wisest thing in this situation will be the decision to have no convictions at all and never to participate in disputes, not try to get to the bottom of the truth in situations where, in your opinion, you were treated unfairly. Unfortunately, this is impossible, the essence of man is such that he needs to have certain life principles and attitudes, while being absolutely sure of their truth. But it should be clearly understood that the motives and beliefs of another person are simply impossible for us to understand. But trying to prove your truth to someone is useless and ungrateful. You should just try to accept the people around you, and the world as a whole, with all their oddities and incomprehensibilities. Do not try to impose your opinion and prove your truth to someone. Remember that your truth is the same lie in the eyes of others.