Everyone dreams of a strong and happy family, but it often happens that all these dreams fall apart under the burden of time and the burden of quarrels and scandals. The surest way to end this is to come to terms with your soulmate. But what if no one wants to make concessions, if the husband insults, and the wife only adds fuel to the fire?
Do you want to be happy or right?
Often the quarrel is caused by the wife (this is bitter, but still true). But what if the husband insults his wife and children, inflates scandals out of the blue, while trying to humiliate relatives in every possible way? From a physical point of view, the wife is a very weak creature that is unlikely to be able to fend for herself, but this does not give the man any right to insult her, and even less to humiliate her. If the husband clearly hints at his physical advantage during quarrels, his wife can only remain silent or become a victim of physical violence. It happens that the whole conflict can be resolved with a simple conversation. It is enough to ask your soulmate the question: "Do you want to be happy or right?" If a relationship is important to a person, then, of course, he will cease to conflict. Well, if his pride is important to him - he will not even think about this issue or will turn it into another occasion for scandal.
Why are there quarrels in the family and how to avoid them?
It is very difficult to answer this question. It all depends on the person, on his attitude to his soul mate, on the perception of the environment, on the impact of the psychological factor. In general, there are many reasons that in one way or another affect the perception of one person by another. If the husband insults for no apparent reason, perhaps the cause of irritability must be sought in himself? It will be useful to turn to a psychologist who not only helps to understand the problem, but also tells you how to solve it. Perhaps the wife simply does not notice or does not want to notice her guilt. In this case, both psychologists should contact a psychologist. The problem can be solved without a psychoanalyst - just sit down and talk heart to heart, honestly. The main thing is that such conversations do not cause new quarrels and scandals.
Husband insults and hits - save!
Often wives become victims of physical abuse by their husbands. A spouse can break off a wife not only on a drunken head, but also on a sober one, which is much worse than if it happened under the influence of alcohol. Why is that? Everything is very simple. Under the influence of alcohol, a person becomes irritable, his normal perception of the environment becomes dull, that is, in most cases he simply does not understand what he is doing. In such cases, it is possible to fight a person. On a sober head, he not only understands what he is doing, but also indulges this, that is, he does it consciously. In the second case, we have clear signs of tyranny, which is very difficult to combat, almost impossible. If a husband insults his wife and children deliberately, then hardly anything can be done about it. There is only one thing left - divorce. No matter how hard the wife may be, but it’s worth deciding on it, because if the husband hit once, then the second will hit.